Anyway, I don't have money for a lawyer (and I'm not sure what a lawyer would be able to do for me anyway).Does anyone have any experience with this and know who I need to contact to make sure that I can get questions answered and violations that don't exist removed?

+1 for removing this and reposting in the classified forum.

The quote says to remove the railing but mentions nothing about reinstalling new railing which typically cost $50-120 per linear foot in CA, as well as lighting it says remove as set aside to be reused but mentions nothing about reinstalling it after aluminum is installed.

My question is, should I spend the time and money to remove the look?

Thanks @Denise Supplee, that's a great tip about taking pictures after the appliances are removed!

Contact local trash removers. 

Usually, he should be given the chance to cure before removal.  

A little patience now might give your wife that early retirement plan with fewer gray hairs later.Keep grinding!

Freon, delivery, install/remove labor, etc etc.

Here's the sequence we typically follow:​🏗️ Interior Rehab SequencePre-Closing PreparationScope of Work: Conduct a thorough walkthrough to identify structural issues, outdated systems, and cosmetic updates needed.Budgeting: Develop a detailed budget, including a contingency for unforeseen expenses.Permits: Obtain necessary permits to avoid delays.​DemolitionSelective Removal: Remove outdated or damaged materials while preserving elements that can be reused.Site Preparation: Ensure the site is clean and safe for the upcoming work.​Structural Repairs & FramingFoundation & Framing: Address any foundational issues and modify framing as needed for new layouts.Inspections: Schedule inspections to ensure compliance with building codes.​Mechanical, Electrical, and Plumbing (MEP) Rough-InsSystems Installation: Install or update HVAC, electrical wiring, and plumbing systems.Inspections: Conduct rough-in inspections before proceeding.​Insulation & DrywallInsulation: Install insulation to meet energy codes and improve efficiency.Drywall: Hang, tape, and finish drywall, preparing surfaces for painting.​Interior FinishesPainting: Apply primer and paint to walls and ceilings.Flooring: Install flooring materials, ensuring they are protected during subsequent work.Trim & Millwork: Add baseboards, crown molding, and other decorative elements.​Cabinetry & FixturesCabinets: Install kitchen and bathroom cabinets.Fixtures: Mount sinks, faucets, lighting fixtures, and hardware.​Appliances & Final TouchesAppliances: Install kitchen appliances and test for proper operation.Final Inspection: Conduct a thorough walkthrough to address any punch list items.​⏱️ Timeline & Efficiency TipsProject Duration: Aim for a 3–4 month timeline, adjusting based on project scope.Scheduling: Use project management tools to coordinate trades and avoid downtime.Communication: Maintain clear communication with contractors and suppliers to ensure timely deliveries and work completion.​📋 Tools & ResourcesProject Management: Utilize software like Trello or Asana to track progress and tasks.Checklists: Develop standardized checklists for each phase to ensure consistency across projects.Budget Tracking: Use spreadsheets or financial software to monitor expenses and stay within budget.​