The agent may have advised them the price was way to high but the owner insisted on listing it there.

They also need to be flexible in where they live, if they want to own-eg if you insist on living in NY city vs being flexible and moving to a less expensive city, you're going to have a higher chance of owning a home.People also need to look at their finances and where the money is going-new cars, eating out frequently, expensive vacations, disposable life style, etc. 

i insisted my name be the first leinholder on the deal but Wendell said the bank is the first the credit partner is the second and im tge third.

For me I insist on buying extra title insurance to cover the fee..

I have painfully referred to the various CA statutes that have been violated and they still insist that they are in the right.

I’ve questioned it and continually insists this is the way to go).Here’s the catch: my husband has to furnish taxes every year to his ex for a custody case, and she combs through them.

Unless we could see the actual paperwork, we wouldn't know what legal peril he faced.Then you insisted he should record anyway. 

If this one situation tires you out, I must emphatically insist, this is not the business for you.

I told him NO, but even though he insisted on the back lot being useless, I could tell there is still some interest.Any who, even if not for him, I'd like to see what help or options I could get in getting creative with this seller financing.

If you absolutely insist on investing somewhere outside of these two, and accept the very real risk of worse returns, higher risk, and more headaches, then I'd do this: - Look up multifamily estimated new unit deliveries over the next three years in the top 50 metros.