But I have good open communication with the buyers directly.

You decide to approach the owner directly."

I would be very cautious of the parts of Neptune that are directly adjacent to Asbury Park. 

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Well, lesson #2...The offer we signed stated that all deposits as well as rent paid for the closing month (prorated) was supposed to be given to us at closing.  

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What followed was a year of legal maneuvering, claims, counter claims, depositions, etc.

If anyone can point me in the right direction of some worthwhile local investment groups or meet ups that would be appreciated.  

Is it appropriate to call the seller and try to get information/details/pain points directly from him, or go through the standard channel of the listing realtor?

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