I was pretty upset about this, because it would never cross my mind to treat anyone in such a fashion.

I'm not going to get much done over the holidays since all my guys are leaving town so I'm savoring the daily victories.  

They didn't understand why I was upset either, they had the best of intentions.

lol this is great.I'm the face and brain behind our REI.but I learnt from the best, my Mom, a very respected businesswoman/entrepreneur.she told me one day: its great to be a woman bc you don't have to answer to anything right away.we have the "I have to ask my husband" card.I love how it drives my contractors/tenants crazy. but they shouldn't be pulling the wool over my eyes.also, my husband, is my bad cop. when talking to tenants/contractor/buyer/seller, I say: "my partner/husband didn't like.... is upset..." and I play the good cop.

So this is a small first victory, but I successfully revamped my website (or rather had a VA do it via odesk.  

@Mitul Patel , my acquisition person in charge of expired listings will be upset if I share the exact letter here on BP.

Because of how upset you are, I assume you have some sort of relation to them. 

My biggest worry is that he might get upset and knowing that there is no insurance on the property try to vandalize it or take things from it or burn it down or something.

Helping to organize a community of investors here in Korea through the Seoul Real Estate Investing Meetup.Here are some of our victories:* from 3 to 223 Members* Virtual Guests that include a murderer’s row of who’s who on BiggerPockets: @Brandon Turner, @Ali Boone, @Engelo Rumora, @Matt Faircloth - (who now all have international speaking experience!)

I was informed that this is not possibe, and once date is set that the homeowner now has virtually no power.2) I only wrote down the leads where the upset amount was significantly lower than the estimated market value for the properties.