I agree the details will determine how it plays out, but to say it is more Bush-policy is a stretch at best. 

Also, I didn't see anything about being able to vacate a property after a certain time period here:http://benefits.va.gov/WARMS/docs/admin26/handbook...There are exceptions of course that could come into play based on your unique situation.

She complains because her dog had no yard to play in.

I would also consider discussing with your lawyer about what role permission plays in this situation.

Though I'd assume that the after developed value wouldn't play into what the buyer would be willing to pay.  

@ Bryan PottsA - Play Monopoly, learn Excel, Learn Algebra II, ..., B - Follow the 2 Rules of REI:        Rule #1 - Never under ANY circumstances, ever, for any reason, spend your own cash.  

Also, most investments are what you could describe as an "appreciation play".  

You have to always assume there is that one neighbor who likes to play neighborhood watch and report people.

I miss the culture of New York City (plays, concerts, shows) but you can't beat the cost of living and weather down here. lol

I think playing therapist though is the right strategy but sounds like you might have to pay more than 49k to get Frank to "sweat" by saying no.