About 3 or 4 months ago on the mobile app the responses aren’t in order of timeline.

@David Nacco I’ve always emailed them at support @ biggerpockets.com.

I work primarily in multifamily and short-term rental investing — and over time, I’ve had many conversations with investors about the unfiltered side of real estate: the deals that didn’t go according to plan.Whether it’s unexpected costs, regulatory curveballs, or guest and tenant issues that test your patience, these stories always seem to reveal the same truth — the best investors aren’t just great at finding opportunities; they’re great at managing chaos.Through my investor interviews and real-world deal analyses, I’ve noticed that every “horror story” tends to leave behind one valuable thing: a framework for better decision-making.

I see your family already has 9 rentals so you have a great support group to help you.

Look for managers with a portfolio large enough to justify dedicated support staff (cleaning, maintenance, revenue management) but small enough for your property not to get lost—ideally in the 50-200 unit range.

(Let me know if you're interested and we can discuss an off market deal) Support a change by incouraging people to vote in their local elections That ain't gonna do anything.

Are you sure these aren't emotional support animals?

Based on what you've said you aren't well capitalized enough to start investing.Do you need to sell your current place and buy a cheaper place? 

If you aren't 100% committed to the idea, consider joining a co-investing club and going in on passive real estate investments with a community of other investors.

I’ve also set up a GoFundMe to help offset some of the legal costs — I’m happy to share the link via direct message if anyone is interested.Appreciate any insight or support from those who’ve been through a similar nightmare.Thanks,Matthew So if I understand this, you are the lender and sold it via a CFD to a borrower who owes you $18k in missed payments and you are in legal.