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Posted about 16 years ago

Do you value your life?

So I am sitting at school. Been 5 weeks since I officially withdrawn from High School of my senior year. I had to run some errands that required me to go to school, so I decided to take October 5, 2009 to go to school and visit my friends for the full class day. And I enter my old classes. I look around and I begin to think. I begin to wonder what my friends are thinking – studying AP Calculus, AP Environmental Science, and Discrete Mathematics. After an hour thought and a quick 15 minute nap, I came to a simple understanding. They don’t value their lives and they don’t even realize it.

How did I come up with this radical conclusion? Well think about it. Here my friends are, studying Discrete Mathematics. The subject of the day was Functions. Sitting here, I try to grasp what’s being taught for an hour and forty-five minutes every weekday. Strangely enough, once I understood it, I also understood how meaningless it was too me. Yes I know there are those who strive to become phenomenal computer engineers and software/hardware developers, but the majority of people are not like that. So I am thinking to myself, “If I don’t find this very useful, what are the chances my peers find it useful?”. Well, I decided to answer my question and ask my friends. The Result? Well I got two main answers. The first being the exact same thing I was thinking, “it was useless”. The second most prominent answer was, “so I can get into a good college.” The immediate question that pops into my head after hearing “so I can get into a good college” is what is the purpose of that. Well, the purpose of going to a good college is simple. It’s been engrained in their minds since they began school. It was to get a good job, where they would than follow to trade their time for money.

Hmm. The one thing I can say without lie is that we will all die. Sooner or later. Yes, I know it’s a bit grim, but it’s a fact of life - death. So that leaves this little bit of time spent on this little planet that defines our lives. It’s this little dash in between our birthday and our deathday embossed on our epitaph. Time is all we have on this earth. It IS our life, but yet we trade it by the hour for 40, 30, 20, and sometimes even as little as 5 measly dollars. What’s even worse is that in the real world, I see people not only just trade their lives for money, but also take up jobs they resent and dread. My friends commonly approach me with the argument that “what if they like the job they have and love it do it?”. My only response would be to ask “would they do it for free?”. There’s another common counterargument I am contested with. “But we need money to live, else we would have no life to live at all.” And to this statement, all I can do is dread the future. The fact that they assume that no job equates to no money at all ultimately reveals how deeply rooted this idea of working for someone as the only option is in our society. The idea of earning a living in a way other than working for company doesn’t even exist in their minds!

 “All my possessions for a moment of time.”

-         Elizabeth I

These are words spoken by Queen Elizabeth while she was waning away. What good is all of the riches of the world if we have not the time to enjoy them? Time. It is our life. Let us place a bit more value in it. Even I at times, forget the significance of time. Spend it with the ones we love. Free it from stress and pain. Cherish it as it is blessed and precious. 


Comments (5)

  1. i thought like this my senior yr in high school, and when i told my family and friends that i wanted to do real estate and not hold a job they all laughed at me..insecurely i just went to school ..trying each yr to get into real estate, but failing due to my lack of commitment and my busy school schedule, last yr in 2008 i made the decision to make it work, and i've been working ever since, and I dont regret it for one minute. With that said everyone has a choice to do what they love or to do what they have to do and sometimes life enables you to do both or just one of the two...Tiger this is my saying....Memento Mori..and in latin it means Remember Your Going To Die...powerful words, and i believe It can move mountains....


  2. I know exactly what you are talking about here. I too felt the same way during my junior and senior years of high school. Its like everybody was programed to think that school and a great job will automatically fulfill you and ensure success. I was definitely not one of those people (which is why I have been in and out of college since graduating from high school two years ago). Where Im from people do one of two things- either get pregnant and drop out of college (or beauty school) or go to a vocational school and spend the next 10 to 15 years at some dead end, life-less job. I made a promise to myself that I would not be included in that category, and from then on my number one goal was to make a better life for myself than what is offered at home... I even took a whole year off of school to really study my options, I guess the grown-ups call that soul searching. Then I found this website and got the ball rolling. I am now a successful wholesaler with no immediate plans to set foot in another college besides to take a few enrichment courses (mostly photography classes and a few business/fashion courses at the local college). It is amazing to me that I get to do what I love (take amazing photographs and DJ around the world) and afford a lifestyle many people covet with only a few hours of work per day. This is definitely the life. Tiara


  3. I can remember the feeling I had after withdrawing myself from high school my senior year. That sense of freedom and true purpose. I had subscribed to "poor dad's", good grades equals safe secure job theory my entire life. Walking from one AP class to another, I knew I had to learn what the rich knew. In your face Mr. Juba!


  4. I agree with your Chris in regards to the learning experience of school. But the classes I am mentioning are all very high level and extremely challenging classes in which my friends and I have literally slaved over throughout the school year, sacrificing sleep, friends, family, and our health. The only reason I and my friends even considered taking it was for the sake of widening their chances for college. I have to thank school for giving me a foundation to which i use to build my knowledge and for introducing me to a variety of people and building my interpersonal skills. But my success has been a very biased one - but I'll write a post little on what that means later. Taking a class here and there is completely different than taking a class to find a job because the economic situation demands it. I should have added an additional paragraph to this post, but the main point I was trying to convey was the drastic measures that our society's youth are taking to get just a job.


  5. Interesting blog post. I don't know if I agree with it completely, but interesting nonetheless. Sure, everybody learns a lot of useless information in school, but it still exposes us to ideas and experiences that we may not have had otherwise. I graduated long ago, but still take the occasional class here and there just to see if I learn or experience something new. Also, I remember a phrase that I once heard and have kept it with me: We have to work to make enough money so that we don't have to work. I don't remember where I heard it, but I think it resonates with the second part of your post.