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All Forum Posts by: Austin Hughes

Austin Hughes has started 68 posts and replied 440 times.

Post: Am I a Jerk for Asking Buyers to do this?

Austin HughesPosted
  • Rental Property Investor
  • Lubbock, TX
  • Posts 455
  • Votes 182
Originally posted by @Joshua S.:

The agent's priority is to get the deal done so they can get their commission. Anything that could rock the boat is against THEIR best interest, so he's just trying to protect his deal.

I would be inclined to do the same thing, but I think you have to pick your battles. That said, maybe as a compromise you could approach your agent about having the buyer sign an addendum to the contract agreeing to a hard deadline at the 12 day mark and if they don't make it THEN they will have to pay holding costs. This way you aren't being a jerk, but are also not being walked on and you're offering a fair compromise.

Very true about agents' best interests.

I think you have provided me the absolute best solution!

Post: Am I a Jerk for Asking Buyers to do this?

Austin HughesPosted
  • Rental Property Investor
  • Lubbock, TX
  • Posts 455
  • Votes 182
Originally posted by @Nick Rutkowski:

Can the buyers buy you and your partner dinner for the inconvenience?

 I don't want to eat with these people!!! hahah jk. They're probably great individuals

Post: Am I a Jerk for Asking Buyers to do this?

Austin HughesPosted
  • Rental Property Investor
  • Lubbock, TX
  • Posts 455
  • Votes 182
Originally posted by @Jonathan Towell:

@Michael Hayworth I like the way you think.

 Your advice was music to my ears and at least made me feel great. I think I need to set the tone from the beginning that we aren't going to play around... 

I made my decision after overwhelming response but now the scales are tipped again -___- lol

Post: Am I a Jerk for Asking Buyers to do this?

Austin HughesPosted
  • Rental Property Investor
  • Lubbock, TX
  • Posts 455
  • Votes 182
Originally posted by @Grant Rothenburger:
Originally posted by @Austin Hughes:
Originally posted by @Grant Rothenburger:

@Austin Hughes I personally don't think that $400 is worth the risk of them walking away and getting $0.

 Agreed. And you work for the Best Ever Podcast? Very cool job haha.

 I do, lol thanks. I enjoy it very much. We just strive to provide as much value as BiggerPockets does!

 I met Joe when he came back to Texas Tech to teach a class. I was just getting started at that point, and I think his podcast was very young too. Great to see the growth he's had!

Post: Am I a Jerk for Asking Buyers to do this?

Austin HughesPosted
  • Rental Property Investor
  • Lubbock, TX
  • Posts 455
  • Votes 182
Originally posted by @Alexander Felice:

did you have the contingency for overages set before this happened? or are you just trying to capitalize on a small delay in closing?

delay in closings happen all the freaking time, don't let it get you wound up. Keep your eyes on the long game, the big win.

 Oh yes, how well I know about closing delays. I think this one hit me more than all the others because it was 100%....okay 90% the buyers' fault & easily avoidable.

But I have put myself out there, baring all, to be humbled by good wisdom. :) Thanks.

Post: Am I a Jerk for Asking Buyers to do this?

Austin HughesPosted
  • Rental Property Investor
  • Lubbock, TX
  • Posts 455
  • Votes 182
Originally posted by @John Woodrich:

As mentioned above, you asking them to reimburse ends up being a counter offer to your previous deal.  If they had any cold feet this would be their chance to walk.

When you get to this stage of the transaction the lenders, realtors, etc will try to do anything to make it close.  They have put quite a bit of time into it and don't want to lose their paycheck.  This is where you always wonder who's best interest they have in mind in however this amount is minimal and they are doing you a favor by not presenting a counter offer.  If you pushed him hard enough the realtors would probably take it out of their commissions but you would burn a bridge or two on the way.

Don't count your money before it is in your pocket.  Right now you have a liability sitting there and unless the market has improved it will cost you more to punt this transaction.

 Great advice all around, especially talking about counting money before it's in my pocket.

Yeah, I don't want to burn a bridge. I want to build them! I guess I see it as something I would do as a buyer if requested, but we just add this to the list of things that I do differently than others lol.

Post: Am I a Jerk for Asking Buyers to do this?

Austin HughesPosted
  • Rental Property Investor
  • Lubbock, TX
  • Posts 455
  • Votes 182
Originally posted by @Grant Rothenburger:

@Austin Hughes I personally don't think that $400 is worth the risk of them walking away and getting $0.

 Agreed. And you work for the Best Ever Podcast? Very cool job haha.

Post: Am I a Jerk for Asking Buyers to do this?

Austin HughesPosted
  • Rental Property Investor
  • Lubbock, TX
  • Posts 455
  • Votes 182
Originally posted by @Tony Gunter:

Torpedo a deal over $400??!!

Sorry, not trying to be a jerk, but suck it up buttercup. It’s part of the game we are playing.

 Glad I asked. I thought of it as..."It can't hurt to ask." But apparently it's received much more abrasively.

Post: Am I a Jerk for Asking Buyers to do this?

Austin HughesPosted
  • Rental Property Investor
  • Lubbock, TX
  • Posts 455
  • Votes 182

So, I'm checking you guys out @JD Martin, @Nicole A., @Russell Brazil... And all 3 of you seem to be speaking from experience and have great businesses, so I will defer to your judgement. I appreciate the perspective and honesty.

THANKS! :D

Post: Am I a Jerk for Asking Buyers to do this?

Austin HughesPosted
  • Rental Property Investor
  • Lubbock, TX
  • Posts 455
  • Votes 182
Originally posted by @Russell Brazil:
Originally posted by @Austin Hughes:
Originally posted by @Russell Brazil:
Originally posted by @Austin Hughes:
Originally posted by @Russell Brazil:

Courts in my market have said that minor delays are simply part of the transaction and do not award damages, and often stop people from trying to exit a transaction due to a minor delay.

 Good to know the legal standing in your market. Hopefully laws are based on common sense. Where would you draw the line between a minor delay and one that you'd want to get compensated for?

 My concern would be in keeping the transaction together.  At least under our customs...once you have made some sort of request for modification in writing, the contract then becomes open for negotiation, which could allow the buyer to bail altogether, or maybe make their own request to make it more beneficial to them.  Sometimes when you rock the boat, it will tip over.

I agree, keeping the deal together is always the primary concern. Do you think I'm wrong for asking for them to cover the holding costs?

 It is not something I would do personally.  If a client asked me to do it for them, Id explain to them the risks, and when it inevitably blew up Id just shrug my shoulders.  Youve probably have a 20% chance of them agreeing to it,  a 30% chance of just pissing them off but nothing happens, and probably a 50% chance of it blowing up from some means you havnt thought about.

 There are always the unknown things that can happen. Thanks for reminding me they exist. I appreciate your input.