Thanks, everyone. This is the house my daughter grew up in. Lots of memories-- and even more so since this is the home my wife (her mom) lived and died in. She and my late-wife frequently talked about her (my daughter) buying (or renting-to-own) this house when we (planned) to move to a smaller Patio home. (Again, that was back when the house would have sold for 1/2 what it would sell for now).
@Colleen F., you wrote: "If you rent it you start depreciation and that will impact your taxes if you do sell eventually because it has become a rental."
Am I understanding correctly that if I rent the house (to my daughter or anyone), the house will depreciate?
My future wife's house is worth double what my house is currently worth. If we both sell and buy a smaller house (and split the cost), we could buy a new house and have some left over for retirement. My current house value would cover 1/2 of a new house, but I wouldn't have anything left over-- she would.
Using rough figure: My house $300k (was worth $189k when my late-wife/daughter talked about her buying the place). My future-wife's house, $600k. A new house, $500+k.
If she sold her house, bought a new house (and kept it all in her name & survivor benefits for her kids), she'd still have a little left over, but obviously not as much--- so I thought a rental income could provide the extra retirement income we'd like to have. If we both sold our houses, we'd have a new house & maybe $200-$300 (after fees, etc.). I realize this is likely the better financial option than getting a monthly rental income (but maybe someone here can tell me if I'm wrong).
The problem, of course, is this means kicking my daughter, son-in-law, & grandson out of the family home they have planned to live in until they grow old (and I know that plans can obviously change). Based on the current rental/home market prices compared to when they moved in & started paying rent, they are going to be in for a drastic change in lifestyle because prices, where we live, have skyrocketed & some young families (even in my neighborhood) are living with other young families & splitting the cost of homes.
When my wife died, my daughter was my rock. Dinner every night when I came home from work. Someone to talk to. She ran errands for me, & took care of the house. I never thought I'd meet someone again after losing my love. I thought I'd be there forever & my daughter would help take care of me in my old age. I even upgraded some things in the house because I figured this is where I would die, and my daughter & her family would be by my side to help me in my old age.
Suddenly that changed when I found a new love (and wasn't looking for love). When I first began to get serious with the lady I'm with now (long before we talked about marriage), my 12-year-old grandson approached my daughter & asked, "Is grandpa going to kick us out of the house?" When my daughter told me this, I replied, "Of course not" (never thinking far enough in the future that if we decided to get married, something would change in our living conditions. Now I'm faced with that very scenario. It's heartbreaking to kick her out, but I want my future wife to be the most important person in my life. I was hoping I could find a solution that works for everyone.