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@Sam Yin
Thanks for sharing. My mortgages total $1 million (including primary residence). I thought that was high but in the context of 2 California properties, it's not that bad. I was getting discouraged from the naysayers who told me I should pay down my rental mortgages with the highest interest rates. I'm brainstorming strategies to scale so I can reach my Financial Independence number sooner.
Going to play devil's advocate here: with all these mortgages, what if you become incapacitated/disabled and can't work anymore? Or make decisions regarding your investment properties? Now my kids are stuck making these decisions - I've had enough talks with them to advise them not to sell off the properties and take the cash (which is many non-investor's thoughts) and to keep renting them out if I were to pass away (or 1031 to buy a more profitable property). In my case my W2 job makes up most of my income and having a California relatively high salary enables me to qualify for conventional mortgages to buy properties. The lender does look at at rental comps, with my last SFH purchase. They count my rental income from my other properties to factor in getting the mortgage.
There is no single right or wrong answer, just the right answer for you. Your challenge is to find that right answer for you. No one here on this forum, or on earth, will have the perfect answer because they are not in your shoes. They do not have your tolerance, fears, and ambitions. They do not make your money or do not worry about what troubles you.
At the beginning of my REI journey, my W2 was my primary income. To leave my W2, I had to guarantee I can generate the same income and compensation package, or darn close to it, but rather, even more. The trade off is the release from those golden handcuffs and the freedom of choice in all that you do. Think about it, do you not factor in your employer when you are about to make some personal choices? Your employer and your salary is always in the back of your mind. Thus, you are not making a truly free choice. And for those that claim to make the exact same decisions regardless, then you either live the life of the employer's policies/goals or you are lying to yourself. If it's the former, then you are the lucky one that have a job you love... and it's not a job, because you love it and would do it for free. Get my drift??
To your question about playing devils advocate, that can be played in every possible scenario put forth. Because their is always that what if. Somethings we mitigate using what we know and trust, others we either keep worrying about of forget about.
For me, I established a family trust with 3 sub trusts. Within it are rules for the successors and beneficiaries. The assets accumulated in my lifetime is a bonus to the beneficiaries, not a guarantee. At the same token, if I am incapacitated, it really does not matter, but I get it, some people cannot accept that. Therefore, the rules within the trust has dictated what I believe to be the best method of asset preservation since I believe there has been enough created to take care of my bloodline for many generations to come. This is as long as they follow those established protocols.
The parameters include regular drug testing, incentives for education, business and entrepreneurship, as well as producing heirs. Full distribution occurs when they are 40 yrs old, when I believe most people mature. The heirs also have an obligation to continue to deposit into the trust to increase the pot for capital investments, etc... this happens to be my way of preservation and growth. You have to figure what works for you and your goals.
This take effect if I'm incapacitated. But then again, if it didn't, it would not matter. But that's the person I am. I am a refugee from Cambodia that survived mass genocide of millions in a few short years. America was my land of opportunity and I seized it. I have been down to zero more than once and crawled back up. Your upbringing, morals and ethics will have the most influence on your fears and anxieties.
Food for thought: I had a great government job with a guaranteed 6figure pension, and I found I'm better off without it. I was only a few years away from maxing my pension but I chose to walk away. Many at work say I'm crazy. But I think I did the right thing.