Originally posted by @Tom Vanderlinden:
I just had my duplex fall through, before we got to closing, because it appraised 45k short of purchase price. This was my 5th in 6 months that fell through. I've been working hard to read and do research after work and I really had my Hope's up about getting this duplex and house hacking. I feel like I'm hitting a road block at every turn and I really don't see how I can ever get to 50 or 100 doors like all these podcast guests. Any encouragement for someone getting started? I'm not sure what else to do other keep making offer on multi family and try to house hack whenever something comes up?
Tom, I have some good news for you: More deals are going to fall through. No, I'm not being sarcastic or rude. Why do I say this is good news?
A few reasons. First, some of these may not have been the right deal for you. Example, this one appraised short. Being underwater on a property as a new investor in this economy wouldn't be fun. Perhaps one of the others would have come through, and been a headache for you. So many things can happen. There are instances where the deal you did NOT do is better for you.
Also, you've built so much experience in just the past few months, from trying to close deals, and having things fall through. I know it doesn't feel like it, but sit down and write a lesson from each deal - something you learned for the future, or would do differently. Now, there are some things you can do better in the future. You're stronger as a result of these painful experiences.
I have some more good news, this time actual good news: You're going to close a deal. If you keep taking consistent, smart action, it is going to happen. What's more, if you learn more, and keep growing as you seem to be, you'll close more.
I'll share my own story: First deal I ever tried (a duplex, with a close friend), fell through shortly after offer was accepted and we were opening escrow). Next duplex fell through after a 3 month escrow (seriously) and plenty of stress.
Took a pause for a while and got going again, and closed another one after looking at a bunch more. Thought I learned a lot. Yet, to complete my most recent deal, had another escrow fall through and a few more that wasted a lot of time and went nowhere. The point is, this is a constant in this business, but you get better at sniffing out the BS and avoiding the traps, as time goes along. I am still a pretty new investor by any standard, but I've improved, and no doubt you will too. Keep on trucking.
Thanks for sharing your experience with me. That's why I posted on the forum, hoping this wasn't uncommon and I wasn't a rare statistic. I'm hearing now how common this is, especially when you're starting out. What can I say other than I thought it would be easier, but experience is the best teacher. That's why I feel like I'm learning more through doing than I was reading. But I guess the struggles are what teaches you the most.