All Forum Posts by: William Miller

Quote from @Jacob Thorpe:

Quote from @William Miller:

Quote from @Jacob Thorpe:

Early on I  heard these same things.  Its important to remember that everyone in life has had some type of dream or goal and that throughout the years of life they have made 'reasonable' choices, sacrificing what they loved and wanted to do for the comforts and securities. Over time they have rationalized this maybe, and so when hearing about your goals they justify why they did not do or follow their pursuits.

I would also not talk about your goals or money and real estate and how youre going to be someone some day to people who are happy and comfortable where they are, it will only risk offending them and suggests where they are is not good enough for you.  This can make a person  defensive.  Maybe they are your aunt or uncle or mom and you think that they should  support you in getting rich because if they love you and its good for you than they should support you in every way.  I think as you grow you will learn a lot more about the human condition and why this isnt the case because when youre talking about money and success people have a habit of becoming very selfish. 

Think of it this way - you wouldnt go down to the bar or to an apartment building and talk to people in a low class or middle class or go to the farm and start talking to people about how you are going to be a great success one day and all these awesome things youre going to do. It would sound like you are planning on becoming better than they are, that their current position is inadequate. 

More importantly just talking isnt worth much, if you had let your actions speak for themselves and show people your cars, house, invite them on cruises and pay for everything, invite them over for dinner and host, have a private chef prepare a great meal (theyre pretty cheap) it would no longer be a question, nobody will be able to doubt, people might actually be interested and you'd have entertained them, provided them food and something to do while also showing off and  proving them wrong which. Very satisfying feeling! 

Wow  I really needed to hear this. Thank you for laying it out so clearly and honestly. That hit deep.

You’re right, a lot of people aren’t trying to tear you down intentionally, they’ve just made different choices and found comfort where they are. I’ve definitely been guilty of thinking, “Why wouldn’t they support me if it’s good for me?” but I see now that money and success bring up a lot of emotions in people, especially when it challenges their own past decisions.

I’m starting to learn that real power is in moving quietly, letting results do the talking, and keeping my circle focused. This was some of the most grounded advice I’ve gotten so far, and I really appreciate you sharing it.

Would love to learn more about how you handled these dynamics early on in your journey.

 I don't get it?

Quote from @Joe S.:

Quote from @William Miller:

Quote from @Joe S.:

To the most part, it’s mainly newbies that talk big game to their friends and family anyways.

Haha fair point. I’ll admit I’ve definitely shared some big goals before I had the full game plan, but I’ve learned quick that real results speak louder than hype. Now I’m focused on doing the work, learning from people who’ve actually done it, and keeping my circle tight. What’s something you wish more newbies understood early on?

What’s something you wish more newbies understood early on?

OK since you ask. Lol.
If any newbie show up at a mastermind please shut up and don’t do all the talking..
 

 Haha understandable Ill take that into consideration No way I can learn if I run my mouth. Like my dad used to say, " If you would just shut up and listen you might learn something". TRUE tell this day lol.

Quote from @Jacob Thorpe:

Early on I  heard these same things.  Its important to remember that everyone in life has had some type of dream or goal and that throughout the years of life they have made 'reasonable' choices, sacrificing what they loved and wanted to do for the comforts and securities. Over time they have rationalized this maybe, and so when hearing about your goals they justify why they did not do or follow their pursuits.

I would also not talk about your goals or money and real estate and how youre going to be someone some day to people who are happy and comfortable where they are, it will only risk offending them and suggests where they are is not good enough for you.  This can make a person  defensive.  Maybe they are your aunt or uncle or mom and you think that they should  support you in getting rich because if they love you and its good for you than they should support you in every way.  I think as you grow you will learn a lot more about the human condition and why this isnt the case because when youre talking about money and success people have a habit of becoming very selfish. 

Think of it this way - you wouldnt go down to the bar or to an apartment building and talk to people in a low class or middle class or go to the farm and start talking to people about how you are going to be a great success one day and all these awesome things youre going to do. It would sound like you are planning on becoming better than they are, that their current position is inadequate. 

More importantly just talking isnt worth much, if you had let your actions speak for themselves and show people your cars, house, invite them on cruises and pay for everything, invite them over for dinner and host, have a private chef prepare a great meal (theyre pretty cheap) it would no longer be a question, nobody will be able to doubt, people might actually be interested and you'd have entertained them, provided them food and something to do while also showing off and  proving them wrong which. Very satisfying feeling! 

Wow  I really needed to hear this. Thank you for laying it out so clearly and honestly. That hit deep.

You’re right, a lot of people aren’t trying to tear you down intentionally, they’ve just made different choices and found comfort where they are. I’ve definitely been guilty of thinking, “Why wouldn’t they support me if it’s good for me?” but I see now that money and success bring up a lot of emotions in people, especially when it challenges their own past decisions.

I’m starting to learn that real power is in moving quietly, letting results do the talking, and keeping my circle focused. This was some of the most grounded advice I’ve gotten so far, and I really appreciate you sharing it.

Would love to learn more about how you handled these dynamics early on in your journey.

Quote from @Jacob Thorpe:

Early on I  heard these same things.  Its important to remember that everyone in life has had some type of dream or goal and that throughout the years of life they have made 'reasonable' choices, sacrificing what they loved and wanted to do for the comforts and securities. Over time they have rationalized this maybe, and so when hearing about your goals they justify why they did not do or follow their pursuits.

I would also not talk about your goals or money and real estate and how youre going to be someone some day to people who are happy and comfortable where they are, it will only risk offending them and suggests where they are is not good enough for you.  This can make a person  defensive.  Maybe they are your aunt or uncle or mom and you think that they should  support you in getting rich because if they love you and its good for you than they should support you in every way.  I think as you grow you will learn a lot more about the human condition and why this isnt the case because when youre talking about money and success people have a habit of becoming very selfish. 

Think of it this way - you wouldnt go down to the bar or to an apartment building and talk to people in a low class or middle class or go to the farm and start talking to people about how you are going to be a great success one day and all these awesome things youre going to do. It would sound like you are planning on becoming better than they are, that their current position is inadequate. 

More importantly just talking isnt worth much, if you had let your actions speak for themselves and show people your cars, house, invite them on cruises and pay for everything, invite them over for dinner and host, have a private chef prepare a great meal (theyre pretty cheap) it would no longer be a question, nobody will be able to doubt, people might actually be interested and you'd have entertained them, provided them food and something to do while also showing off and  proving them wrong which. Very satisfying feeling! 

Wow  I really needed to hear this. Thank you for laying it out so clearly and honestly. That hit deep.

You’re right, a lot of people aren’t trying to tear you down intentionally, they’ve just made different choices and found comfort where they are. I’ve definitely been guilty of thinking, “Why wouldn’t they support me if it’s good for me?” but I see now that money and success bring up a lot of emotions in people, especially when it challenges their own past decisions.

I’m starting to learn that real power is in moving quietly, letting results do the talking, and keeping my circle focused. This was some of the most grounded advice I’ve gotten so far, and I really appreciate you sharing it.

Would love to learn more about how you handled these dynamics early on in your journey.

Quote from @Joe S.:

To the most part, it’s mainly newbies that talk big game to their friends and family anyways.

Haha fair point. I’ll admit I’ve definitely shared some big goals before I had the full game plan, but I’ve learned quick that real results speak louder than hype. Now I’m focused on doing the work, learning from people who’ve actually done it, and keeping my circle tight. What’s something you wish more newbies understood early on?

Quote from @Bruce Woodruff:

I would only share goals with like-minded...and very positive people. Anyone else will just slow you down or derail you entirely! No need for that in any kind of business, especially Real Estate.

Some people just naturally run on fear and negativity.....realize this and treat them kindly. But avoid them like the plague, they are going to be small-thinkers and nay-sayers and they will cause you to question yourself continually. 

Once you make your plan, analyze and vette it, then you must just put the blinders on and Go. For. It. 

 I love the " blinders on and Go! " I feel like that is one thing I need and have been working on! I have fallen in the trap of listening to people who have NEVER done what I'm trying to do.

Quote from @Isaiah Hall:

Man, this hits home. You’re spot on, sharing your vision with people who haven’t walked the path can drain the energy, excitement, and momentum fast. 

It really does make a difference surrounding yourself with people who are actually in the trenches, taking risks, solving problems, and building long-term. That’s the kind of feedback that helps us grow.

Appreciate you putting this out there — let’s definitely stay connected. What market are you focused on right now, and are you looking for flips, rentals, or something else?

Appreciate that man, it’s real talk for sure. I’m focused on BRRRR right now, aiming to build long-term cash flow and eventually break free from the 9 to 5. Still early in the game, but hungry to learn. What kind of deals are you working on these days?

Quote from @Jaycee Greene:

Quote from @William Miller:

Lately, I’ve realized that not everyone deserves a front row seat to my goals.

Most of my friends and family are good people but they don’t share the same vision or mindset when it comes to building wealth, real estate investing, or taking risks for long-term freedom. And that’s okay. But what I’ve learned the hard way is that sharing my plans with the wrong people can kill momentum before I even start.

You’ll hear things like:

• “That sounds risky.”

• “Real estate is too expensive right now.”

• “Why not just stick to your job and play it safe?”

• “My cousin’s uncle tried that and lost everything.”

Most of them mean well. But the truth is, most people want to give advice they’ve never earned. They've never done a BRRRR, never managed a rental, never dealt with banks or built anything from scratch but they have an opinion ready to go.

So I’ve been learning to keep my head down, stay focused, and connect with people who are actually in the game. People who’ve done what I’m trying to do. People who can offer real feedback instead of fear.

If you’ve ever felt the same  like you’re moving in a different direction than those around you  just know you’re not alone. I’m here to network, stay accountable, and build something real with people who get it.

Let’s connect. I’m always down to trade knowledge, share deals, or just keep each other locked in.

– Will

Hey @William Miller, you've definitely come to the right place to find like-minded people. What type of properties are you seeking, SFR, 2-4 MF, or 5+ MF? What is your price range/down payment amount? Are you looking for turn-key properties or something along the lines of a "fixer upper"? Are you looking for properties in your local market or somewhere else?

Appreciate you, man. I'm glad I found this space it's already helped me shift my mindset and dig into the numbers more seriously. Right now the goal is to build long-term cash flow and eventually replace my 9 to 5 using the BRRRR method. I'm open to SFR or small multifamily (2–4 units), as long as the deal makes sense.

Price range is flexible since I’m planning to either pull equity from one of my current rentals or go the hard money route. I’m definitely leaning more toward fixer-uppers where I can force equity and grow faster  not looking for turnkey unless it’s super strategic.

I’m in California, but I’m planning to invest out of state in more investor-friendly markets, just trying to navigate what that process looks like from a distance. Would love to hear how you’d approach that if you were starting fresh today. Appreciate any tips you’re open to sharing.

Lately, I’ve realized that not everyone deserves a front row seat to my goals.

Most of my friends and family are good people but they don’t share the same vision or mindset when it comes to building wealth, real estate investing, or taking risks for long-term freedom. And that’s okay. But what I’ve learned the hard way is that sharing my plans with the wrong people can kill momentum before I even start.

You’ll hear things like:

• “That sounds risky.”
• “Real estate is too expensive right now.”
• “Why not just stick to your job and play it safe?”
• “My cousin’s uncle tried that and lost everything.”

Most of them mean well. But the truth is, most people want to give advice they’ve never earned. They've never done a BRRRR, never managed a rental, never dealt with banks or built anything from scratch but they have an opinion ready to go.

So I’ve been learning to keep my head down, stay focused, and connect with people who are actually in the game. People who’ve done what I’m trying to do. People who can offer real feedback instead of fear.

If you’ve ever felt the same like you’re moving in a different direction than those around you just know you’re not alone. I’m here to network, stay accountable, and build something real with people who get it.

Let’s connect. I’m always down to trade knowledge, share deals, or just keep each other locked in.

– Will

Lately, I’ve realized that not everyone deserves a front row seat to my goals.

Most of my friends and family are good people but they don’t share the same vision or mindset when it comes to building wealth, real estate investing, or taking risks for long-term freedom. And that’s okay. But what I’ve learned the hard way is that sharing my plans with the wrong people can kill momentum before I even start.

You’ll hear things like:

• “That sounds risky.”

• “Real estate is too expensive right now.”

• “Why not just stick to your job and play it safe?”

• “My cousin’s uncle tried that and lost everything.”

Most of them mean well. But the truth is, most people want to give advice they’ve never earned. They've never done a BRRRR, never managed a rental, never dealt with banks or built anything from scratch but they have an opinion ready to go.

So I’ve been learning to keep my head down, stay focused, and connect with people who are actually in the game. People who’ve done what I’m trying to do. People who can offer real feedback instead of fear.

If you’ve ever felt the same  like you’re moving in a different direction than those around you  just know you’re not alone. I’m here to network, stay accountable, and build something real with people who get it.

Let’s connect. I’m always down to trade knowledge, share deals, or just keep each other locked in.

– Will