How I found BP:The above mentioned unit has led me to spend countless nights running tons of calculations on cash flow, returns and generally just getting excited about the bottom line and other numerous benefits of real estate investing.

I have done my research for the past 6 month through bigger pockets, Robert Kiyosaki, and numerous other books.  

What are some legal ways we could keep the house and still qualify for home health care or even a nursing home?

I have two parents whose health is declining.

Its really amazing I had one of my clients post add's for investors in numerous foreign country craigs list adds..

I must get out for my mental health.  

trust @Hattie Dizmond  on this one  ;)learning to strategically disengage from your business is a great skill for long term mental (and relationship) health

Just be careful to plan it correctly.Based on your figures you'd have to come in with a substantial amount of cash to pay down your loan to 75% of appraisal in order to "take out," or refinance out of the FHA loan.One solution beyond having a grip of cash is to buy the fourplex considerably under-market but the likelihood of that is two fold because you have to abide by the "health and safety," standards of FHA financing which can be daunting at times when looking at REO's, auction sales, and etc.Best of Luck,

I did more investigation and found that she only has one active trade and the other derogatory accts are from past medical bills from child health complications.

Almost every single person that contested their home's assessed value before it was my turn had numerous printouts of other "comps" in their area from Zillow, and they were quickly informed that wouldn't cut it and their request to lower their property's assessed value was denied.However, when it was my turn I used actual recent sales (plus a recent appraisal) to prove my point and I won my case and had my property's assessed value lowered to what I requested.