There’s no harm in making some quick profit and reinvesting.If you're thinking long-term and are okay with the more complex refinance and buy-out process, BRRRR can build your portfolio, but just be sure the cash flow and potential appreciation make it worth the hassle.

Not sure how much I've been harmed, YET, though apparently I was banned and marked as a spammer back in April.  

It's simple, plentiful, cheap, and emissions are less harmful than a cow fart. 

You might want to read our series about “How to Screen a PMC Better than a Tenant”, since selecting the wrong PMC is usually more harmful than selecting a bad tenant: https://www.biggerpockets.com/member-blogs/3094/91877-how-to-screen-a-pmc-better-than-a-tenant-part-1-services-and-processes

Hard lesson learned for me that my family isn't to be trusted ever again and that I need to severe my relationship with them completely because they have harmed me & my child emotionally & financially.  

The good wholesalers will have experience, knowledge (provide accurate ARV estimates or at least close), integrity in putting together win-win transactions, and a list of actual real cash buyers ready to buy (or capital/ capital partners to close on the property themselves if they can't find a buyer), so that the seller isn't left in the lurch and harmed by having their property locked up by someone who doesn't actually have any buyers or a clue on how to sell the property, or any money to buy it.

I think the multiple drone shots showing every possible aerial view of everything is a waste of time and can actually be harmful if there's unfavorable things nearby.

To Mike's point, it can also harm your ability to move on with a new partner who probably will not be thrilled to learn that you're still financially involved with your ex... 

If I feel threatened to the point of harm and yes it has happened to me, I'm shooting.

We don’t know any PMCs to recommend in the area mentioned, but since selecting the wrong PMC is usually more harmful than selecting a bad tenant, you might want to read our series about “How to Screen a PMC Better than a Tenant”:https://www.biggerpockets.com/member-blogs/3094/91877-how-to-screen-a-pmc-better-than-a-tenant-part-1-services-and-processesWe recommend you get management contracts from several PMCs and compare the services they cover and, more importantly, what they each DO NOT cover.