I just want to be as delicate as possible since this woman just lost her sister.  

This will guide your stain colour choice.

Like @Amy Hu said, be careful, especially if you're out of state. 

It's all a delicate balance of risk vs reward and rates of return vs time. 

First and foremost, this is very delicate stuff legally. 

I've encountered these types of nit-pickers before, and they usually don't complete the application.And you have to be delicate sometimes because you don't want to be (or be accused of) acting in a discriminatory manner.

@Amy Hu yes ma'am, I totally agree.

Originally posted by Lee Common:WTFDIKI wonder if this license plate is available in Georgia, and if it is, how long would I be allowed to keep it before I offend someone's delicate sensibilities?

I prefer to colour code my lines (red, blue, grey, orange) so I know right-away what's being carried in the pipe.

<g>Ever notice how on those carpenter shows even the most complicated wood working details:  complex finger joints, delicate inlays, and etc. all fit Perfectly the first time?