____________________________________________________________Hey Angel, I've heard that in the UK, if You trespass so many times without challenge that You can eventually end up in court claiming ownership of that land.However, We all know that You cant own any land, only the right to "lay waste upon" the land.Besides confrontation, what's Your angle here?

But when confronted during board meetings, they claim ignorance or "we'll look into it".

I don't think I would write them off totally but it wouldn't be starting off with a plus.Good luck on whatever you decide.I generally dnot  like to bring it up right away, in case they don't want the apartment, then there is no reason for me to confront them about it.and they actually did not want the apartment since they wanted much larger bedrooms 

I have a lot of skills to offer as I manage four retail stores that net >$1M per month in sales, hire/screen candidates weekly, have excellent critical conversation/confrontational skills, and I am the personnel leader for more than 100 employees.

The tenant is not going to take responsibility for this if you confront them about it. 

Also, I'm not sure I want to get into a direct confrontation with the daughter and eventually just let myself in with an inspector and end up in a very uncomfortable and crazy situation.

While I won't be paying down my debt early, I will soon find myself confronted with the choice of either to refinance/releverage/trade up, or to continue paying down my debt.The answer to whether you should pay off your debt or not comes down to two personal questions you have to ask yourself:1) Can I get a better return elsewhere? 

There will be times it may be scary for your safety . it will be confrontational and times you will have to actively force other adults to improve their conduct against their will to their face .

How could I go about confronting my neighbor about his plans for the property before it is too late.

Even if they did, I would try not to be judgemental, I would shrug my shoulders and wonder how people can live that way, but would avoid confronting them about anything less than normal...."