I can empathize with your dilemma, my first rental was a duplex, now a 4 plex.

I listened and empathized, though I liked them since I got to party with undergrads. :) But I would not want them as my tenants either.

A self funded care plan is challenging to execute and I empathize with you and your family.   

I guess I just really wanted to complain to a group of people who could empathize. :) @Daria B., that must have been so frustrating!

If you feel like you're being mean, then lookup some resources for homeless or displaced women in your area and provide that resource to her and tell her you empathize with her.I don't know this persons story but it could be anything from true, to having personal life drama that you dont want in your rental, there could be illegal activities/drug use involved (pressured speech, confabulation of wild stories) or perhaps just unfortunate uncontrolled mental health disorder.

And before I go further, sincerley, thank you for your service to our country.As I expressed on the call, I may not agree with the way you described each of the instances in your post after reveiwing our notes, emails and phone logs, but I fully empathize with the frustration you were feeling.  

I've been renting for 15yrs myself, and I empathize a lot with renters.  

I completely empathize with your scenario and you are right this is why wholesaling is being eradicated in many metro areas. 

You are both going through hard times so you both need to understand each others pain and empathize before it strains the relationship.

You've received some very good responses from investors and brokers.I guess I would empathize that a well funded or financed investor and a smart real estate broker can make a lot of money together but you need good communication and mutual respect for it to work.