We on BP, however, do not pay full retail (hopefully) and look at the numbers without emotion.  

I know from personal experience that it's easy to get emotional about these situations, but try to maintain your cool.

So coming back to debt - it is a tool, nothing more and nothing less...take it or leave it, but let us stop making it an emotional thing - it is not!

Do not let emotions cloud your judgment.

Investors invest in any array of assets based on what their objectives are and more importantly, facts not necessarily emotion.

Since I have a tendency to jump from one shiny object or project to the next, my goal for the next two months is to stay the course on my RE education.I also want to find a RE agent to work with who understands investors and who is patient with me as I will not be jumping into my first deal with a great deal of emotion and a "I hope this will work" attitude.I also want to become more fluent in the numbers game of fix and flipping or wholesalingI want my husband to join me as we start this part of our lives so we can build a better nest egg for ourselves and a business our son can take over one day.I want to research and move forward on at least one form of passive income that is not RE related.  

Your are getting emotionally involved with the property.

@Jay Hinrichs The whole "maxing out your pre-approval" thing has always been a mixed bag of emotions for me1.) 

However I have a hard time separating the emotional side of things from the numbers/deal.

The other one had a dog, which turned out to become an emotional support animal.