I look at your more as an operator who is smart enough to set your portfolio in the best tax advantages you can. ( not be a dealer ) .. 

Women can come and go in your life at-will, but contrary to what most people will agree with, you need to make your career more-important than a woman who beats you down and will leave you, anyway.I was married to a drug addict for 18 years.

No Gand graffiti or if you watched for an hour you couldn't spot a drug house?  

Our being together has nothing to do with money, business nor materials things.I was married to a woman who was on drugs for 18 years.

Whether it be incompetence, drugs, laziness/entitlement, or the idea that they are above doing a job because it's not what they want, or because it's not in the field of their underwater basket weaving degree. 

I hired a contractor who ended up being a drug addict.

Everyone missed the true potnetial legal issue: OP coming dangerously close to admitting that he has acted as a fund raiser for his son in law who may be dealing a security: ie connecting him to investors for a fee, with no mention he has registered as a broker dealer with the SEC?  

I had no clue either were doing drugs. 

Beyond that, as long as someone will give you a loan against a property, you can do exactly as you said, which makes me ask:Did you drug or induce the original owner into temporary insanity? 

Used car salesmen's license (in addition to the actual dealers).