Originally posted by @Khenan Newton:@Jay HinrichsYou never know what these people might want hahaMy car might be old but that just might be what someone fancies if they feel the need to sue. been doing this 4 decades no one sues anyone to just get a car in a real estate transaction.. unless you have substantial real estate holdings or are known to have LOTS of cash .. no one is going to spend the money to sue you... its just fear mongering.. and frankly one of the reasons dealing with wholesalers is so bad.. no accountability with most of them they just do deals that don't work and walk.. kind of like trying to sue a dead beat tenant.. 

Oh I know how to avoid all KINDS of words!

I have approached the church about leasing them the lot for continued use. i dont want to sound like the Devil here but they  need the parking and without any compensation i am forfeiting the potential of any development on the lot. i really dont have any immediate plans for any development especially if they would lease the lot and of coarse the church is pushing back on any kind of lease to use it. they offered me to donate the lot for them to use as a tax right off but not sure how beneficial that would be. what do you guys think?

Any insight would be great since this feels kind of like a win, but not sure how it benefits the buyer that much.  

Would that just be money out of my pocket or would that be some kind of note.

If they are (when you invest), then you're doing it wrong...and you're probably leaving all kinds of opportunities (money) on many tables.

and will see what kind of money they can get in a disgorgement.. 

There are lots of different ways to structure these kinds of deals and the incentives of each party depends on how it is structured. 

Thanks again for the kind words and I hope to chat soon.

I guess I'm spoiled, I grew up in a brick home back East, and I'm kind of biased.