Do You Build Relationships with Lenders for Referrals?

Do You Build Relationships with Lenders for Referrals?

MD · Member since 2025 · 50 posts · 16 votes

I’ve been thinking a lot about the role lenders can play beyond just financing a deal. In some cases, lenders seem to have a front-row seat to investor activity—seeing who’s buying, who’s refinancing, and what types of projects are getting funded.

That got me wondering: Is it worth it for investors and businesses to build stronger relationships with lenders as a referral source?

  • Have you ever received a deal lead, buyer, or even a contractor referral through a lending connection?

  • Do you see lenders as purely transaction-focused, or do you try to build ongoing relationships with them?

  • For those of you who lend or borrow often, what’s been your experience in terms of networking value?

Curious to hear if connecting with lenders has added value for you outside of just getting financing done.

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Mike GrudzienPro Member
Lender · Eugene, OR · Member since 2019 · 2k+ posts · 1k+ votes
1y

Yes, networking is part of the business scene for decades.

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  • Mike GrudzienPro Member
    Lender · Eugene, OR · Member since 2019 · 2k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    1y

    Yes, networking is part of the business scene for decades.

  • Andrew PostellPro Member
    Lender · Fort Worth, TX · Member since 2016 · 8k+ posts · 6k+ votes
    1y

    @Ellisa Riddick thanks for the post.  I have been an investor for 25+ years now and while I am a lender as well, I've never received a deal from a lender.  Usually, relationships with lenders are transactional.  That doesn't mean there can't be an exception but by in large, our deals come from wholesalers.  Having a lender is a lot like having a title company or plumber.  It's ok to have your favorite but you need 3 others just in case.  Yes, I do have contractors and contacts and networking groups that I share with my clients...but I'm an investor.  So, that is really rare.  Most lenders are vendors and that's how I would recommend for you to treat them. 

  • Lender · Irvine, CA · Member since 2025 · 27 posts · 8 votes
    1y

    Ellisa – good question. I’ve found the lender/investor relationship is usually transactional, but there’s a nuance. Most lenders don’t actively hand out deal flow, but the ones who’ve been around long enough often know who’s serious, who’s in over their head, and where projects are getting stuck. That information isn’t always shared directly, but if you build trust, sometimes opportunities slip your way.

  • Lender · Los Angeles, CA · Member since 2025 · 40 posts · 17 votes
    1y

    Partnerships is the only way to go in our business model. For this reason, we are very broker friendly when deals are brought our way. Of course, we all know how business works, especially with direct borrowers coming our direction, but being an outlet to a broker who can't fund a loan is something we take pride in. We are here to be a longterm partner and creating teams (in whatever capacity that may entail). 

  • Jay HurstBusiness Member
    Lender · Dallas, TX · Member since 2017 · 1k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    1y
    Quote from @Ellisa Riddick:

    I’ve been thinking a lot about the role lenders can play beyond just financing a deal. In some cases, lenders seem to have a front-row seat to investor activity—seeing who’s buying, who’s refinancing, and what types of projects are getting funded.

    That got me wondering: Is it worth it for investors and businesses to build stronger relationships with lenders as a referral source?

    • Have you ever received a deal lead, buyer, or even a contractor referral through a lending connection?

    • Do you see lenders as purely transaction-focused, or do you try to build ongoing relationships with them?

    • For those of you who lend or borrow often, what’s been your experience in terms of networking value?

    Curious to hear if connecting with lenders has added value for you outside of just getting financing done.


     I send deals to my investors often. I see a ton of deal flow you mentioned so I have deals that come to me that I send out. Kinda of a wholesale function but I do not take a wholesale fee of course. 

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  • Specialist · Cleveland, OH · Member since 2021 · 99 posts · 30 votes
    1y

    @Ellisa Riddick building a partner network of your preferred vendors as well as networking with other industry pros is of huge value. In my community, I see many members (agents, investors, lenders, property managers, etc) often send each other referrals. But there is so much more you get from a strong network aside from referrals.

  • Lender · Miami, FL · Member since 2025 · 25 posts · 5 votes
    1y
    As a lender I personally consider relationships huge, we always emphasize building solid relationships with investors, brokers, wholesalers, and even realtors. There's always money to be made on both sides for anyone so while it can be considered purely transactional, there's also the quid pro quo side of it. Anyways, to me relationships in this business are everything.
  • Lender · Sanford, NC · Member since 2024 · 347 posts · 116 votes
    1y

    Honestly, in most cases it ends up being pretty transactional. Lenders are mainly focused on getting deals funded and closed, not necessarily on sending referrals or building long-term networks for investors. Some may drop a connection here or there if it aligns with their own pipeline, but I wouldn’t count on it as a steady source of referrals. If you’re working with lenders, I’d approach it with the mindset that their role is financing first and everything else is just a bonus.

  • Erik EstradaBusiness Member
    Lender · Member since 2022 · 6k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    1y
    Quote from @Ellisa Riddick:

    I’ve been thinking a lot about the role lenders can play beyond just financing a deal. In some cases, lenders seem to have a front-row seat to investor activity—seeing who’s buying, who’s refinancing, and what types of projects are getting funded.

    That got me wondering: Is it worth it for investors and businesses to build stronger relationships with lenders as a referral source?

    • Have you ever received a deal lead, buyer, or even a contractor referral through a lending connection?

    • Do you see lenders as purely transaction-focused, or do you try to build ongoing relationships with them?

    • For those of you who lend or borrow often, what’s been your experience in terms of networking value?

    Curious to hear if connecting with lenders has added value for you outside of just getting financing done.


     It definitely helps to have relationships with anyone in the real estate industry, not just lenders specifically. Think about it.  Realtors, Lenders, Contractors, Insurance Agents, Title Agents, Escrow Officers, etc.. all see distressed properties. If you are always top of mind and are actively buying in an area they service, they will definitely reach out to you. 

    Say you offer a referral fee or finders fee for any flipping opportunities, and stick to your word, most people will keep you in mind. I think where most people get it wrong is they expect people to hand them deals. You need to actively work your relationships, provide value and help others succeed first. Then you will get your deal. 

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  • Wendy PattonBusiness Member
    Real Estate Consultant · Clarkston, MI · Member since 2009 · 859 posts · 350 votes
    1y

    I would say being a lender myself, that yes, I do see what is moving in the market....what people are paying.  What they are putting into a project, etc.  Also, maybe times I find deals they want, or visa versa..... networking is the key to every successful business person.

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  • Lender · Tampa, FL · Member since 2013 · 2k+ posts · 2k+ votes
    1y

    The first people I call if we see a deal are people that use us as their lender regularly. We're certainly going to refer those deals to those who are giving us the business. I think we add a great deal of value as we've been investors ourselves for a couple of decades. We've been able to be valued advisors and I can't tell you how many investors we've helped bail of out jams when things to awry on a deal. It's not just referrals we lenders can help with. 

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