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The Empty Driveway That Told the Whole Story

David Litt#1 Foreclosures Contributor
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Last winter, I drove past a house I hadn’t seen in years. The yard was overgrown, blinds half-closed, and the driveway — once filled with cars — was empty.

I used to know the people who lived there. Not well, but enough to know they hosted big backyard cookouts, kept the grass trimmed like a golf course, and always had holiday lights up before Thanksgiving.

It wasn’t until I saw the “Notice of Sale” taped to the front door that the change clicked.

Here’s the thing: on paper, foreclosure is numbers — missed payments, interest rates, arrears. But when you see it in real life, it’s also an emotional event. For most families, losing a home isn’t just losing a roof. It’s losing their place in a community, the smell of familiar walls, the street they know by heart.

The part people don’t talk about? Often, the signs were there months or even years before the paperwork caught up.

  • The second car disappears from the driveway.

  • Repairs get delayed.

  • Guests stop coming over.

By the time official notices arrive, most homeowners have already been living in quiet crisis for a while.

From an investor perspective, this is where the conversation gets tricky. Yes, distressed properties can be opportunities — but they’re also chapters of someone else’s story. And the way we approach them says a lot about our ethics and our understanding of the human side of real estate.

I’m curious: have you ever stepped into a deal that made you rethink the line between opportunity and empathy?

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