Is there a way forward from the past?
Hi all, I hope everyone is well and making it in these crazy days.
*Have a question that I am hoping professionals can weigh in on. I am setting out to rent an apartment, and happy about it. But also nervous. The problem is, I have a past. At 18 (~15 yrs ago) I became a convicted felon after a very unfortunate incident driven by the INCREDIBLY stupid decision to take drugs and a horrible reaction to their effects. The details of the situation are not easy to talk about, and certainly I can see a potential landlord's trepidation when seeing them at a glance. But that is not who I was even then, and certainly not who I am now.
My life has changed in so many ways since then. I got my degree, have a great job, and, most importantly, I have been completely drug free since. Literally (knock on wood) have not had a speeding ticket since. I have excellent family support (and have been living the past few years in a family owned property. My question is essentially, as landlords, would you give me a chance? I get all kinds of advice from people, ranging from "just don't bring it up" to " you'll definitely find something" but I would like to hear it from professionals / owners.
Any advice anyone could provide about how to navigate this situation, and what are some best practices, even personal stances on the matter would be very much appreciated.
Thank you!