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All Forum Posts by: Anthony Parsons

Anthony Parsons has started 6 posts and replied 47 times.

Quote from @Matthew Irish-Jones:

@Anthony Parsons

Busy professionals are well compensated and have very little time. To get someone to donate time to you for free with no agenda, getting nothing in return, and to provide you a model they have probably spent thousands of hours developing and tens of thousands of dollars building is not realistic.

You can post on the forum to solicit free advice.

Your question should be… what can I do to bring value to a busy professional that has already succeeded in an area I am interested in?

If you are looking to be a Real Estate Investor the best way to get a water fall full of advice and someone’s time is to use them as an agent, use their property management services, their 1031 program, or whatever business they are running.

Their agenda is to continually build their business. If you want help… give help, and don’t ask for peoples time for free because that is in extremely short supply. Most people that are somewhat successful in investing or in any field related to real estate work a lot of hours at a fast pace. They would rather donate money than time to a cause because they have less of the latter.

What extra time they do have goes to loved ones, soccer games, family parties, and homework, etc…

Not to strangers on the internet asking for agenda free advice and offering up business models that have been paid for in blood or something similar lol.

That’s what makes bigger pockets great, you can get free advice from multiple individuals on the forum.

Getting 1-1 attention from someone, as it should, requires you to be a paying customer.

 Great feedback!  Thank you.  I know how the initial post came across, but I am more than willing to compensate someone for their professional time. The issue is I've reached out and unless I'm investing into their profession, such as using them as an agent, etc., they aren't interested.  

And you are 100% correct, this forum is very helpful.  

The best piece of advice I've received is to speak to a financial planner versed in real estate.  This is my next step.  I need to act in the next couple of months and have been cramming and trying to learn as much as possible and there really hasn't been anyone willing to mentor. 

Thanks again. 

Quote from @Eric Bilderback:

You come across to me as spoiled.  Where was all my help?  It’s probably not coming to you on a silver plater.  


Thanks for sharing how you chose to interpret the post.  Are you willing to help or contribute something to the solution?

Quote from @Nicholas L.:

@Anthony Parsons have you tried going to REIAs?  Most folks going to REIAs love to talk shop.

 No, but I will look into this.  I appreciate the recommendation-I hadn't considered it.  

Quote from @Jon K.:

Most experienced investors I know are willing to share knowledge and help those who are less experienced, but they're also busy running a business. Time is precious and most people who are "getting started" waste it. They don't intend to waste it, or even know that they're wasting it because they fully intend to put your advice into action. But they don't. Things stop them: life, analysis paralysis, fear, whatever.

I don't want to position myself as an expert but I'm not brand new either. I've had people offer to pay me for an hour of my time. But then I felt guilty about taking them up on it because am I really providing enough value to justify charging for that time? Who the hell am I? And if I am providing value, my time is worth far more than what was offered in those few cases. So where does that leave things?

Combine that with the fact that of the dozens of "getting started" people I shared as much knowledge as possible with over the past few years only one or two ever took action. It gets frustrating.

So much of what your asking is subjective. There is no "best" path, or strategy because it's entirely dependent on your goals, abilities, resources and risk tolerance. Online forums are great for fundamentals but experience is the best teacher. Make some decisions, take action, start networking and reciprocate value. Then you'll find people are more willing to take the time.

 Thank you, Jon. 

You described what I'm experiencing pretty well.  I appreciate the time you took to explain it.  

I will say, I do believe there is a best (in being prepared) path that makes sense for the goals I've previously explained.  And I (respectfully) disagree that at 43, and risking thousands to include my retirement goals, are best leveraged through jumping in and gaining experience.  While experience is a great teacher, most folks on here have a thousand stories of what they wished they would have done differently and a recurring theme is to find a mentor or someone to help prevent them from making many senseless beginner mistakes.  

I completely understand folks in the business don't have the time to waste, etc. to have a discussion.  But I think it is smarter of me to at least try to make that happen, if anything, to reduce my risk.  If I were in my 20's perhaps I'd feel differently. 

Again, thank you for the time you took to contribute.  I will certainly keep trying to learn. 

Quote from @Kyle Eckert:

@Anthony Parsons

We are looking at this situation right now.

Us: Own a house thats worth 350-400k, looking to sell or rent soon.  

Rent:  Owe 89k at 3.25%  Should rent for $2300,  Mortgage is $900/month. Checks the 50% rule.  Cashflow should be $500+ per month, not including principal paydown. Lets assume $7.2k profit, these calculations assume reserves build for maintenance, capex, vacancy.

Sell: Assuming a sale at $350k - $2.5% for realtor (Im listing it) - 89k debt =$250k "tax free profit"

So, how long would it take to make up that difference if we rent it?  $250k/$7200/year = 35 years Not adjusting for taxes paid, which would be income tax.

In the end, I ended up setting a threshold for the sale at $300k.  If we can sell above that, Ill be happy in selling it.  If we can't sell it for thatt much, then we will hold it for a rental.

It might make sense to sell your current place and reinvest in a better cashflow market anyway, if youre going for cashflow.

Maybe that helps?

Thank you, Kyle.  My rent should be approx 5-600 above the 1900 mortgage, however, I am more interested in using it to sell in 15 years to pay my future home off for retirement-paying an additional 1k a month out of pocket doesn't sound fun to me to get a mortgage paid in 15 years.  That being said, I think it would cash flow okay, and I could even reamortize the loan down the road.  

My large concern is I feel like walking away from this property is a missed opportunity at the rate and future it has being a new home in an upcoming area.  Also, being new, wouldn't likely need repairs soon.  

I'm simply challenged with keeping the VA loan (2.25%) and needing a potential HELOC over the next 2-3 years (maybe). I don't want the HELOC to interfere with a refi (VA to conv) if I needed it to purchase my future home. Although I suppose once I pay the HELOC off I can close it. I am in an okay position to not need a HELOC but not sure if I rent if the prices would inflate on me and we all know when it rains it pours. In 3 years my child support ends and I'll have an additional 2500 monthly.

I wouldn't have an urgency to move but I'm being afforded the opportunity through work and if I don't take it I risk losing the opportunity in the future. 

Thank you for the feedback!

Quote from @Jon Kelly:
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Quote from @Steve Vaughan:
Quote from @Anthony Parsons:

I'm in a position to sell or rent my current home prior to moving out of state for work where I may rent for a couple of years or buy depending on what the market is like at the time.   


 For most everyone that's lived in their primary for at least 2 years, it makes the most sense to sell tax-free.  Absentee landlording can really suck. 

In addition, most primaries are too nice to be good rentals and we don't know if you've ever landlorded before.  Steep learning curve.  

So- have you owned and occupied your primary for more than 2 years? 

What was your purchase price? Estimated sale price?  

Have you ever been a landlord before?

 These are the important answers to me when deciding to sell or rent out a primary.




I'm trying to determine if I should rent out my current Townhome or sell it. What I'd prefer to do is rent it out for long-term purposes as I am 43 and this will pay my future home off when I retire.

I purchased the townhome for 340k and owe 330k after a refi last year. Currently, it is worth 430k+ If I sell I can make about 50-70k after fees. 2 years in the primary home this May 27 and it is in a new area that is developing quickly. I have been a landlord before but years ago and briefly. I don't have any debt besides my car and have good credit (low-mid 700's) but limited savings after recently paying off a card. I am a GS-15 in the gov. and make a good salary (163k) plus 600 monthly from the VA. My current mortgage is $1900 at 2.25%, after speaking to an agent, I believe I can rent it for $2400-2500. I am in a good financial position but in order to pay my home off once I purchase it, I don't want to have to pay an extra 1000k to principal to get it paid off before retirement, which is why I want to rent my current home. In 3 years I will have over $2500 additional monthly due to child support ending and would take a HELOC as a safety net if needed.

Looking to move to Orlando to be closer to friends and family eventually purchasing a new home around 500-600k. I have many questions regarding waiting to purchase a new home in 3 years once inventory increases. Should I rent an apartment or house since rental prices are going up? I'm curious as to which kind of HELOC I need that would allow a refi down the road on my rental should I need it since it is a VA loan-I'm uncertain as to my COE right now.

My big concern is retiring with a home at 57-62 with a paid-for home and believe renting my current place will fill that demand and then some. However, with rental property and a HELOC how hard will purchasing be in 3 years? How are future DTI's calculated with HELOCs; will my VA loan be usable in 3 years or will I have to convert my current loan at 2.25% to conventional?

Sure, I can sell and hold the money, or just jump in the market which I'm not particularly a fan of (especially since I’ll $2500 back in 3 years from support), but is renting out my place worth it with the amount of equity I have if I sell it? I have many other questions. Should I sell/rent now or wait to watch the rate hikes and how they impact the market? ETC. I can go on.

Thanks again.

It would be good if you did an analysis on your primary as a rental. Put this into the BP calculators (or any calculator) and see what the monthly cashflow / return looks like. On the surface I like the idea of renting out your primary. (1) Your debt is so cheap. 2.25% is a great rate. (2) $50k after fees isn't that much for a $430k property. (3) Hold until it appreciates to $475-500k+ 

Rent/buy in Orlando is completely a personal choice. If you can find a good deal now then buy. Otherwise, renting is a great option. You can get a better sense of the area(s) and you don't need to come up with $100-150k down. 

Thank you. I will take a closer look at the calculator/tool. I agree, the property debt is at a low percentage which got me interested in the renting process. I suppose I would have to plan for a conventional loan to buy in the future if I go this route unless I forgo the HELOC.

Appreciate the feedback. 

Quote from @Zack Karp:

@Anthony Parsons the reason you weren't/aren't getting good replies is because your initial post was too vague.  Garbage in, garbage out.

Now that you provided your real life situation and numbers, it makes it easier to everyone reply with better answers.

First off, it's a no brainer to sell your home after May 27.  If you lived there 2 out of the last 5 years, you won't pay any capital gains tax (for now, there are proposed tax changes on the hill, one of them is getting rid of that and everyone paying capital gains, period.  Hopefully it will get shot down.)

If you did decide to keep the house, and you get a heloc first, then you likely won't be able to refi after the fact.  The heloc would need to subordinate to the new first lien, and that would be a challenge.  So get that plan out of your head.  So if you kept the house, you would need to refi to Conventional first, and then get the heloc.  Yes you are going to lose your 2.25% rate and you would need to make peace with that, but the longer you wait, the higher it will likely be.

So if I were in your shoes, I would sell, and take those tax-free gains, and reinvest. You can buy another primary residence with 0 down with your VA entitlement, and use the rest for a down payment on another property if you wanted. You could also house hack, meaning you could buy the first home, live in it for a year, then use your secondary/bonus entitlement to buy another home with a VA loan with 0 down (or close to 0, depending on your entitlement), and keep the first one as a rental. For this, your best bet is to get with an investor-friendly LO who also specializes in VA lending, to map out a strategy. Now you have 2 properties and still have all your equity from your sale.

The good thing is, you have options, because you have capital and your VA entitlement, which can be a great combination if you want to have rental properties.

But as far as renting vs buying now, there is no crystal ball.  No one can definitively tell you right now if it's smarter to buy now or in 3 years from now.  Way too many variables and unknowns.  You will need to take a leap of faith either way, and the only way you can truly and accurately answer that question will be in hindsight, years down the road.

TYFYS and best of luck!

Thank you, Zack.  My initial post wasn't intended for detailed answers but to facilitate the conversation from previous posts :)

Your feedback has been very helpful, especially on the HELOC and refi.  I like the idea of selling, buying for a year, renting that, and buying another property.  I will get with an LO to facilitate and discuss further.  

Again, thank you. 
Quote from @Scott Johnson:

If you're approaching them like you're approaching this article, then you're giving them the "you owe me before I've even met you" vibe. Ain't nobody got time for that.

If that is the case, your best course of action is to start building a relationship with a broker. Join a meetup where brokers attend, make friends and buy someone coffee and talk about whatever.

Oh, and offering to work for them for free part-time or on a project that's dragging them down helps tremendously. Give and you shall receive. 


 My approach to this article is to seek help and did not intend it to have a negative vibe-perhaps it comes across as negative due to the topic and the audience.  In doing so I am presenting my experience, which does not include expectations that anyone will help me because they owe me.  Only that I am frustrated with lack of interest I have experienced. 

Thank you for the recommendation, my plan is to seek out others such as a FP with knowledge in real estate.  Meet-up is something I haven't heard about before in real estate but a great suggestion!  Thanks again. 

Quote from @Jon Kelly:

@Anthony Parsons If it was easy EVERYBODY would do it. So you've tried a couple times and haven't found the right connection... big deal. Keep trying. 

Your post surprises me. I've found most people in real estate are willing and eager to help others. 

I'd encourage you to continue making connections with investors, agents, etc. Be specific with your ask. Come to the conversation with what you think you should do and see if they agree/disagree. You're asking for feedback so be open to constructive criticism. 

Thanks, Jon.  

I'll keep trying-hence this thread.  I have found it rather difficult in general though as the individuals I've reached out to (the past month consistently) don't want to help you one-on-one unless it benefits them.  Agents want a sale and everyone only seems interested in how you can help their bottom line.  

Don't get me wrong, I'm extremely grateful for forums such as this that provide feedback and are certainly open to criticism of all kinds-I've learned a lot.  But as a new person trying to get into investment or at least looking for a discussion, it's apparent to me, that it's not nearly as easy for a newcomer than perhaps someone as yourself who is more established.

Again, thank you for your feedback. 

Quote from @Steve Vaughan:
Quote from @Anthony Parsons:

I purchased the townhome for 340k and owe 330k after a refi last year. Currently, it is worth 430k+ If I sell I can make about 50-70k after fees. 2 years in the primary home this May 27 

Ok. So taxes on the sale aren't really material.  It would be nice to close after May 27th but a long-term gain of $50k-$70k won't kill ya.  

I personally wouldn't subject a nice $430k house to a renter, but I may do a Lease Option for a homeowner in training.  Get you past May 27th and save a ton of transaction costs. 

I'd sell or LO this.  Good luck!


 Thanks, Steve.  I'm in no big hurry and don't have an issue waiting past May 27.  

My thoughts were with the home being newer, costs of repairs would be minimal early on.  Point taken :)

Thanks again for the feedback.