To answer everyone's questions, it did not go well and still is tough at times. So, against some members' advice, I did not take it slow and bit off a lot. Not so much more than I can chew, because I handled it, but just more than was reasonable in getting started. Lesson learned? Not exactly. So I learned how much I can handle. I grew a LOT. I learned a TON. All the lessons I learned are cemented in and I will not make those mistakes again. But this is how I am, I take action, I learn and I do 10 times better the next time. My wife knows this, she married me after all. She's the polar opposite. She's slow to decisions, calculates, analyzes, goes back and calculates again, plans, analyzes some more and eventually comes up with the "perfect" plan having gone through all the "what ifs". This is not knocking her, this is who she is (she would be great at analyzing deals).
So, to get to your question, no she's not entirely on board with the whole real estate thing, but she's seen how it has grown me, how I've become more organized, driven, a stronger leader, a better husband, a better father (from all of my self improvement journey, not just real estate...but real estate started it all). She's seen that it's not going away, it's not a fad. She's seen that I have taken real estate and more specifically my homeless veteran initiative to "END veteran homelessness, period" on as my life's purpose. She doesn't like hearing all the details of real estate (ironic for a detail oriented person...just not her thing). What I have learned through much trial and error is that she has to warm up to it. I exploded from the beginning and from her perspective, kind of shoved it down her throat. I was so passionate about, but she wasn't.
If I could do it over again, I'd probably do the same amount of real estate (it pushed me) but I would have approached it with her differently. I could have "packaged" it better for her in a more presentable fashion with spreadsheets, PDFs, etc. If only there was a website that gives you all that...whoops. But now that I am providing us with additional income, she can quit her job and go back to school full time to chase her passions, which I was a very strong advocate for. There's another point right there, if you are bringing in the extra income, don't highlight it too much. For a strong independent woman, she took that as "you need me" and it did not go over well, despite NOT being how I meant it.
Real estate is no different than any other disagreement in marriage. It has a huge effect (negative or positive or both) on your finances, which is one of the core tenants of disagreement in marriages. So treat it as such, a delicate subject and put some thought into HOW it will be received by your spouse, NOT how you mean it. If you love them, you'll want to ensure you're speaking their language so it is well received and not huff and puff saying "why don't you get it?"
I hope this helps. I'm sure the older and wiser men and women in the forum can agree. If not, I'd genuinely love to hear why or why not.