John,
Love your drive and ambition, but you might want to lose the victim complex. It won’t help you. I haven’t been through everything you’ve been through, but I’ve been through quite a bit of it, and frankly spending any energy moaning or even thinking about it won’t help you in any way. One little secret between you and me though, I’ll agree with you on just one point. White privilege does exist lol, I live with it deeply every day but you just work around it. It has nothing to do with you. It doesn’t actually hurt you or detract from you in any way.
That said, you’ve gotten a lot of great advice here but let me add to it.
Credit score. Some people have mentioned it and I will too. You really want to work on it and get it up by about 100 points. Now right now you’ve got two choices. With that score you won’t get optimal rates, your safety net (cash) is very low, and anything you want to do will come with a lot of risk. If you want to jump into it now, you won’t have time to build your credit score, so you don’t really need to read any further.
However, if you DO plan to listen to those telling you to build your nest a little more, then hit the grindstone, hustle every penny you can, and get some credit cards if you don’t have any yet. I recommend about two. I highly recommend checking into a few cash rewards cards that have a sign up bonus that you can achieve through normal spending. If you can pocket the signup bonus towards your future home, it’s even better. Just don’t try this if you can’t make it for your regular spend.
Keep in mind, you MUST pay off the credit card every month. This isn’t to help your credit score, it’s to keep from paying interest which is basically throwing money away. But you need these cards towards building your credit score if you don’t have any yet. Bear in mind as well, getting a credit card will drop your credit score by 10-20 points for at least several months. I wouldn’t get any credit card within a year of applying for a loan, optimally not within two years but a higher score will save you thousands, if not tens of thousands on your future mortgage and you might as well work on the score if you’re building your cash.
And that education... listen to your dad. I’m actually about to head back to get my masters finally because I finally realize the value of having that piece of paper. My day job is what has enabled me to buy 4 domestic and two international properties and I’m looking to purchase possibly two more this year. I honestly wish I started thinking the way you are when I was 21. If you hunker down and build the foundation of your financial house first (income, credit score, and cash base) I think you will have a golden future ahead of you.
Oh, and I might want to mention that I actually have NO car right now for the past six years. I walk to work. No car payments, no insurance payments, no gas or maintenance... it’s amazing how much I’ve been saving.
Final note: If you’re not handy, I highly recommend getting some experience anywhere you can. It will save you tons if you can do your own repairs.