Wow! Thanks for all of the feedback everyone! I really appreciate it!
@Bill S. - I would agree about wasting money on the yard, if it were a matter of trying to make it cute... Sadly, it's been reduced to just dirt. Watering it won't help! lol My husband and I are arguing over sod vs seed. I want to sod because it's fast, he wants to seed because it's cheap. I really appreciate your experience, especially in the crazy Denver market! I am also aware that it may come down to eviction even after the lease ends. Holding my breath that it won't come to that! They're not bad people, they just struggle financially and priority-ally, and their standard of care doesn't match mine...
@Danielle D - wow! I love the kitchen- it is somewhat close to what I was thinking - not super expensive, but still very pretty! And I'm super jealous of your bidding war! The Regis area is crazy, because I have known the area since the 80s, when you really didn't want to live there. It's funny how these older, previously slightly scary, neighborhoods are really cleaning up and becoming the hot areas!
@Greg S. - yes, it's difficult to live next door. We are looking forward to moving out in the next year or so, so that we're not faced with disappointment every day, when they decide to.... put a couch on the porch, etc!
@Ahmad Hijazi - we would love to refi - it's part of the thought process in updating. We've started with our side, because it's easy to do while we're here (read: slowly!)
@Andrew Halbert - the Denver market is insane. Yes, 70s houses with minor to no upgrades fetch great prices. It doesn't seem to make a huge difference, but I feel like I would personally feel better if it were nicer. This is why I question big updates, and why my husband thinks I'm just being silly.
@Kevin Prentice - sigh... Part of the learning process has been that we are finding out how "loose" our old landlord was. I should have known, since he was my landlord for a long time. Of course, he did no screening, didn't care when the rent was paid, and didn't do any move in or move out procedures. It was nice, as a tenant, to deal with him, but we are now paying the price for his overly laid back nature. We DID put a line into the lease that stated that we were aware of two issues, but that the house was otherwise in perfect condition before they moved in. They did initial it. Whether this would stand up in court: I don't know. What I do know is that they won't be getting their deposit back. Just standing in the front yard, you can see that they have completely ruined the yard (it was gorgeous when they moved in), the storm and front doors need complete replacement along with the front window blinds. Who knows what the inside will look like in the end. And of course, the previous landlord took a very small deposit, which was passed along in the closing.
Number one lesson learned? I will never buy another property with existing tenants. You just don't know what the previous landlord did, and how that might affect your future relationship with your tenants. I know some people will disagree with me, but that's my takeaway.