Originally posted by @Ola Dantis:
@Tim Swedberg These are like my favourite questions ever!
What motivates you?
LEGACY | Life past my grave! Ensuring my time here on earth is well spent and maximise my potential every single day. Just imagine BiggerPockets for a second, @Joshua Dorkin had an idea and now 1.5M people use and benefits from it every single. No matter that is legacy!
HAVING CONTROL OF ONE'S DESTINY | We all hear about someone losing their job or being laid off and we feel sorry for them. Investing in Real Estate gives you the ability to at least have "some" control over your life. Yes, if there is a recession then that might affect you a little bit. However, for the most part, you know that you are covered and ready to pass the baton to your children and grandchildren or charity.
LOVE TO BRING AN IDEA TO LIVE | Building a business motivates me and many other entrepreneurs. So, it is always nice to see an idea come into fruition and maturity before one's eyes over time. That is what motivates me to continue building our firm, Dwellynn.
HELPING OTHERS | Anytime I get a text from someone saying you know what you told to do - House Hacking? I say, yes, and the person says I just got my first duplex under contract and I am excited to close. Those calls or messages brings so much joy to my heart.
My philosophy comes from Zig Ziglar's quote:
"You will get all you want in life if you help enough other people get what they want.”
How do you push through the really cruddy seasons of it??
WHY AM I DOING ALL THIS | Constantly ask yourself why am I doing this? Many people live a very content life by going to their 9-5 jobs every day and never even question it (there is absolutely nothing wrong with that). Honestly, I joke with my entrepreneurs' friends' that I think entrepreneurs have a little bit of madness mixed with creativity, of course, to do what we do every day. Understanding that the whole thing is a process to be enjoyed is key!
For instance, I enjoy replying you and sharing my thoughts with you, Tim. I would have done the same thing if I met you in person at a conference or wherever. It is all part of the process. It's should never be about ME-ME, but I how can I be of service to this world?
Also, I posted a reply to this BP forum: Depression and Real Estate. Check it out!
Sometimes, it is ok to be in a rut but you never want to be there too long and/or start ruminating.
You want to get out, literally. And start thinking of what can I do for others? (serve at a homeless shelter, sign up to volunteer in a charity)! This is the KEY!
Hi Ola,
Thanks for the reply, I appreciate the time you put into it. I actually heard of you first when I listened to a podcast between you and and Scott Royal Smith. I always have intentions of doing volunteer work, but never end up doing anything about it. Thanks for bringing it up. I really do want to invest myself into that type of work, I just distract myself from it constantly...
There is a question at the end. If you want to skip to that, feel free to do so :)
I guess I have always struggled with the "why." I have always been far too existential, probably bordering nihilistic, throughout my life. Even though I have great relationships with almost everyone in my life, at the age of 28, I still don't have a significant other and feel pretty disillusioned to most of what life has to offer. But when I engage in life I have a ton to offer - hard worker, good friend, positive influence, etc. I have worked to create lots of opportunities for myself, but now I can't seem to care enough about any of those opportunities to capitalize on it.
I don't want to define my life with negativity. Even though naturally I feel pretty depressed I am still moving forward - being bummed out doesn't really matter in the long run anyway. I just struggle since I don't have the motivation/drive/intention.
Question: What is the source of your motivation? How do you develop your vision around Legacy, control, love and helping others? I want all those things! But they are such high concepts that I don't know how to translate them into a tangible roadmap.
Sorry for the rant, once again. I am still just pressing forward regardless of the whining. I just want to work through it as fast as possible so I can get into REI in the future. Just suck at being self-motivating because I can't identify any goals worth dedicating my life to. Or so I tell myself :)