I have moved on to more mentally engaging podcasts for my drive. 

That may mean keeping yourself mentally motivated until capital/financing options exist to allow you to jump in.Personally in the beginning I'd recommend looking into DSCR loans.

As long as no “healthcare” services are provided (like medication or personal care), it’s not regulated by the Department of Health.

----------This week is absolutely chock-full of both economic and geopolitical action.We have:--Fed Interest Rate Decision--~20% of public companies report earnings, including: Microsoft, Alphabet, Apple and ---Amazon and Meta, giving insight into the health of the consumer.

If selling still feels right, quantify the true all-in cost and how long a 1/1 would take to “earn back” that loss via lower monthly stress; if the breakeven is reasonable and your mental health improves, do it.

Totally hear your frustration—STR startup costs and seasonal slumps can be a huge mental drain, especially in markets like SD where the Airdna numbers vs. real bookings feel worlds apart.

In 2026, they should focus on launching the wife’s business (potentially electing S-Corp status), setting up a Health Reimbursement Arrangement (HRA) for tax-free medical reimbursements, and shifting family income strategically.

This situation has just taken a real toll on my mental. 

You can write off property management fees and the fees are often very small and can help the long term health of your property to have someone with eyes on the unit. 

I don’t if I can’t find some mental ship right now or later than the line I would appreciate some guidance or some information on some tools or resources.