I brake down some of the deals I have done in my book The Hiden Entrepreneur Within Me that for sell on Amazon.

I went into analysis-paralysis looking at market after market.

It can also be costly paying someone for the gas since constant braking and going with 3-point turns, u-turns, etc really does use up so much more gas than you think than driving on a highway or how most people normally would.

@Lindsay Brake thank you for that in depth post! 

I think you're pretty lucky in that, while your wife may not understand REI and doesn't care to, she also hasn't put the brakes on your ability to move forward.  

After marketing the last three months without a deal I think I'm almost forced into wholesaling now.

If this were a car, I'd want someone to say "Don't forget to kick the tires, look under the hood, check the speedometer, check the dipstick, drive it, see if it pulls to one side while driving, slam on the brakes at 25 miles an hour" etc. etc.

It is really unique looking in person and runs great after a chip and after market x pipe.  

However, I think you might want to put brakes on and try to figure what your investment personality is and match that personality with the asset(s) you want to go after. 

I second that, however attorney's usually have some experience in the community (RE Attorneys) and you should listen to what they suggest as there could have been a similar case where they have unique knowledge of the findings.But from what were mentioned, it may be too that the attorney has a personal issue with investors and attempts to put the brakes on such deals.