But I'm not running a charity and it isn't my fault that life dealt her a raw deal or she planned poorly for her future or some combination of both. 

I'm sure that the gals and guys at BP are nice people, but they're not running a charity.

Only a suggestion:~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Maybe have mentees work for you 40 to 80 hours within a year ( for free )Help with demo or cleaning things up before actual rehab takes place ( non skill work -> A little sweat equity for your training )Successful mentees maybe agree to pay forward to other biggerpockets members within 5 years( paying forward training / newly obtain knowledge )Required reading materials Successful mentees agree to donate 1 – 2 % of their profits to biggerpocket or your charity for the next 2 two yearsMaybe successful mentees to run wholesale or other deals past there mentor 1st before contacting other investors ( 2 – 3 year agreement )Again only a few suggestions versus being negative toward the ideal

Then I chase money because my wife has a charity helping indigent children in India and we both want to expand it.

You probably did, I forgot you were a professional.Microsoft has a huge employee charity drive every year ("Giving Campaign"), which includes a big company auction to raise money. 

My reason to be a Pro is simply Charity I am donating to the site and I like to have full functionality ( even though I can't use half of it because I am quite inept at computing).

However, were I to do it at a charity fundraiser or the like, it would fit perfectly as long as it didn't come off insincere.

For example I sale a 50k home my basis is 25k pay about 7k in taxes on profit and 3k in closing cost and give 100% all the cash to charitable my net deduction in this transaction is 40kIf I transfer to charity 1 minute before the sale my deduction is FMV of the asset or 50k.If you have a loan it gets much more complicated, but can still be done if the lender is willing to assign the note and mortgage and the charity willing to accept it.  

Even help with the moving expenses I say.As far as charity, I absolutely believe that giving back should be a part of EVERYONE'S mind set.

@Bill McGrathThe following IRS website covers UBIT. https://www.irs.gov/charities-non-profits/unrelated-business-income-tax