Esteban, it may be slightly different because I target multi-family buildings, but I always look for a value-add deal with the intention of holding long term.

The hold up was conveyancing.

If you're just trying to do a traditional buy&hold or fix&flip, you absolutely do not need a mentor to do that.

You need to bring them back to the conversation at hand, get the true data you need and move forward. 

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Origination costs usually can't be rolled into the loan on PM/HM funded deals so you'd be on the hook for closing costs and as Nicola mentioned holding period costs. 

The very best content regarding all that is, hands-down, that of Michael Plaks (who commented above).

if you can't house hack, i'd pick a market 1-2 hours away so you can be hands on instead of buying something random thousands of miles away.there's no easy button in real estate right now.hope this helps

Regardless of your level of plain/simple vs rustic vs fancy, you can do it for much less by just going to used furnishing stores (primarily).I used both 1) high-end second hand stores (meaning not primarily Goodwill and Salvation Army), and 2) lower level antiques stores where they have decent pieces for say < $500.

Converting them into primary residences will really benefit you if you're going to hold forever.Another strategy our clients will pursue is sell those properties using 1031 exchanges and purchase passive instruments like NNN commercial properties or Delaware Statutory Trusts which will keep the depreciation recapture deferred.