But the choice is ultimately yours I think whatever you decide to do even if others disagree you should make your own choices in life that build your character more than being someone who can’t make decisions because their too worried about what other people think about it.

What happened to the moral ways of my parents and what I expected from them. 

@Michael Haas What characters of the home do you see that can potentially contain a ADU?

You have to follow your own moral compass. 

And since I didn’t share mine here goes:1) work out 250 days of the year. 2) begin to create daily REI videos I.e YouTube channel 3) Create semi weekly REI podcast 4) Help do 85 in office transactions.5) Help REI coaching clients do an additional 50 transactions. 6) Give 25,000$ to my alma matters for donations. 7) Take two memorable vacations with my wife and newborn. 8) Keep a weekly journal to give to my son 9) Provide substaial and beneficial support to those who ask through service. 10) To hold up to my expectations of doing business as person of faith, spirituality, intergrity, and moral character. 

Great to see @Jim K. holding the moral high ground here...

To Mr Harrell: Illegal drug activity draws bad characters who don't give a damn about other people.

But moral outrage and huffing and puffing about rights and obligations...you can make money or you can make hot air in this business.And most of us think of ourselves as capable, self-reliant types.

He tends to find shady characters to help out with renovation and it seems to turn into some sort of drama.

Is its character pretty down to earth or is it going to do a South Lake Tahoe and outlaw most vacation rentals because the wealthy people who own second homes there don't want tourists next door?