No new clothes or shoes and learn to cook.

I'm also active duty military, and I was in your shoes about 5 years ago.

Met Greg yesterday at a local rei all day showcase of his expertise and offers.  

Personally, in your shoes I would get it for 100k, do the repairs immediately, sell it for 170 and get a multi family home. 

Just don't force the shoe to fit, you will definitely grab one with how active you're going at this and that's all it takes. 

Always put yourself in your borrowers shoes.

Contrary to popular belief I do have the ability to dress myself most mornings and have been known to tie my own shoes on occasion. :)

Ever been on a horse with horse shoes on asphalt?

I am confident I can wholesale the house, but the inspection contingency allows me to actually showcase the house.If they don't want the contingency, should I just take it off, and just ask permission for access at the house.

I've been in your shoes.