My brother and sister are in SF and Cupertino, and doing very well.

Our current SFH rental is the only rental property for our landlady and she has us doing the yard maintenance and bugs us about it (primarily bc her brother owns a landscaping company - so she's insanely particular when it's not usually an issue compared to our neighbors and NEVER gets out of control -other than weeds in the backyard mulched area, which is an annual headache - and the willow tree branch droppings which happen every winter and spring - also a major headache). 

If you can’t do it with your brother sister mother father you pry can’t do it with yourself. 

Is this line of thinking almost like big brother trying to protect us from ourselves?

What state do you reside in. that will make a big difference in what weapons you have to fight with.You are smarter than Big Brother.

I purchased a tiny home on wheels (THOW) with my wife to rent to my brother on our property in Agoura Hills, CA near LA. 

My brother paid $197 for it and asked me to go with him afterward.

My fiance's brother is wanting to get into REI through wholesaling. 

Doing so is inherently unjust"Amen brother!

I have a brother living in Owasso, near Tulsa.