Quote from @James Luctamar:
Quote from @Caroline Gerardo:
Time to take leave from your family and job and go there. Cambria hotel is $78 a night make a deal with them. Do you have his home address? Show up at his house at 6:30 AM in the snow with your boots on ready to work with him to complete. A breakfast burrito for him in your hand. He's going to stammer and be embarrassed and have excuses but you married him, time to get him cooking bacon or if he is mortally injured to release all liens and get someone else started today.
Others suggest an attorney - sure spend $70000 and waste time in court, that avenue is going to take thirteen months. You cannot leave the subject property half completed. Bad guys will break in and wreck everything. Have Amazon send you security cameras and some dummy ones to the hotel so they are there when you arrive. Borrow a ladder from your GC and install them and practice the app with your phone. Let him know you have someone coming daily to monitor progress and you have eyes on the driveway as well. IF he is dishonest those cameras disappear when you leave town.
Interview new sub contractors at Modern Builders on 5th/ and Columbus Builders on 3rd/ and Home Depot on Hamilton Rd. The $30000 might be gone for now BUT you MUST get completed. Your Realtor can recommend an honest person to be your project manager- the job requires a notebook, cell phone and to go to the subject property for 30 minutes at different times 7 days a week. This person logs who is working, what supplies are there and texts you - progressing yes or no daily. You are going to have to pay the person by venmo or something weekly to keep them reporting and taking photos.
The cost to extend your loan may be in the thousands. Carry costs, liability, theft, and weather are against you. It's 54 degrees there today so bring warm casual clothing, work boots, rubber boots.
Don't respond that you cannot go there. You chose this and you have the guts to see it through. Do it.
Thank you so much!
Going there might be the best way, any tactics on getting someone to meet when they are unresponsive in the first place?
You are not going to arrange a meet or tell him. I would have the Ohio lien release forms filled out ready to be signed in my coat, a notary lined up to verify his driver license (your lender has a gal who will wait in her car at 6:30 AM for $125). You have his home address? You know what type of truck he drives? Showing up with the hot cheese melting in the burrito and a smile, no argument, no accusations ~ assume the best of him and act with kind heart (big stick in coat). You already interviewed other contractors (do not tell him) and have one to start if he refuses to go to the site, and they dig in that same day. Never threaten just act with honor and courage.
If he refuses, get any materials you paid for from his garage. Secure the site from theft immediately. If the house is complete enough to have someone stay there,( the house is heat working).
So I gave you the hotel contact (sign up for Choice), enterprise will deliver a car ~ choose a 4 wheel drive if you can with hatchback, the notary you send instructions/ maybe she has a boyfriend who can help with the night security. Around 2 AM is the vulnerable hour. How handy are you with tools? Cleveland Public Power/don't know if you are Dominion Gas but you should know. What needs to be buttoned down?
He's not going to pay YOUR lawyer fees, if you chase him in court it's going to be more losses and days where no work occurs means greater $$$$