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All Forum Posts by: Dethorn Graham

Dethorn Graham has started 15 posts and replied 25 times.

Post: $1,300,000 Deal at Age 21 & I'm Retired!

Dethorn GrahamPosted
  • New to Real Estate
  • Charlotte, NC
  • Posts 27
  • Votes 7
Congratulations man. Great Job

Post: Motivated Seller Going through Divorce

Dethorn GrahamPosted
  • New to Real Estate
  • Charlotte, NC
  • Posts 27
  • Votes 7

Hello BiggerPockets community. I have a question. I am just starting out wholesaling and I had a motivated seller who contacted me. He originally wanted to know if i had a home or knew someone who had a home which he could rent for the time being. As I began probing I found out that he was going through a divorce and that their home was going into foreclosure and I thought that this may be a good opportunity here. The house was just built in 2015. It's a 4 bd 3br home. Needs minor repairs from what the seller told me. This is where my question comes in. I've said before that the seller is going through a divorce right? Both husband and wife's name is on the deed. He told me that he has tried to work with two realtors but she has fired them both trying to convince him to work with her realtor so that she could get a spousal leave payment or something like that. He has a court date in September which he wants me to come to court to prove that he has a motivated buyer for the property so that he may get granted permission to sell me the home. Me being a fresh wholesaler, and this being my first potential deal has left me stuck. I don't know if I should go to court with the husband or to get one of my investors to go. Could someone help me out here please? 

Post: North Carolina Reference Fees legal or illegal?

Dethorn GrahamPosted
  • New to Real Estate
  • Charlotte, NC
  • Posts 27
  • Votes 7

Hello BiggerPockets community. I am a new real estate investor in the North Carolina area. For any investors in the North Carolina areas I wanted to know if it is illegal to pay reference fees? I've read about it on a few sites but I wanted to get first hand knowledge from someone who is actually investing in this state. Wish me luck on my investing journey. 

Post: Starting Out Wholesaling

Dethorn GrahamPosted
  • New to Real Estate
  • Charlotte, NC
  • Posts 27
  • Votes 7
I would like to know also. I just started wholesaling and I want to be sure I'm not missing anything as well.

Post: So You're New To This: A Guide for the New Real Estate Investor

Dethorn GrahamPosted
  • New to Real Estate
  • Charlotte, NC
  • Posts 27
  • Votes 7
I strongly agree with number 10. I am a new Re investor and have found myself in multiple situations where I thought it was just too much and that I should just stick to my 9 to 5. Heck, this is the fist comment I have made on BiggerPockets since joining. I told myself last night that I will figure this thing out and I will be successful. I have yet to have my first deal but I know if I stay persistent I will find one. Thank you for your post. Wish my luck