@Brian H.
This is how I see things, Brian. There's a book called How to Study in College by Walter Pauk that I came across when I was a mid-year State University of New York College at Buffalo freshman. I didn't know it then, but the principles first put forth in this book are the basis for almost every college study skills teaching program running in the USA today. It was just a book I ran across at the public library in my hometown in 1993.
I read that book cover-to-cover. Again and again. I had never been given much direction by my parents on how to study, let alone how to study effectively, and I saw the value of this instantly. This was my ticket to the heights of academic performance. I was going to be the kid with the highest grades in the class.
It took a while, but eventually I graduated at the top of my class, summa cum laude, with stratospheric GRE General and Subject Test scores. I applied to six graduate schools for PhD study in my field. Of the six, five accepted me, and I had my pick of four full-ride fellowships and teaching assistantships. One school (University of Pittsburgh) even offered me a TAship to start and guaranteed appointment as a lecturer for the next four years. I turned down Pitt and went to get a PhD for free at Brown and...
Well, that's not the important part of this story.
I have since given copies of How to Study in College to three people. From two of them, I have heard, "Thank you very much." Not a peep after that. I was related to both of them.
The last of the three, whom I am not related to, came to me for study advice. He was planning on preparing for a competitive national entrance exam to a prestigious postgraduate school in a foreign country in the next year. He took my copy of the book and went home with it.
I got a text message from him 48 hours later: "THIS IS IT! IM GONNA $%@* EM ALL WITH THIS! I DONT BELIEVE IT! YOU ARE THE MAN!"
Guess which of those three people is an internationally-renowned oral surgeon today? The other two...yeah, not so much.
My point is, if you really have the right kid, he's going to be bright and motivated to succeed enough to see the value of what you're handing him, and it's going to be a transformative experience.
For many of us here on this site, it was reading Rich Dad, Poor Dad that lit a fire under us. For me, it was very much How to Study in College but after that, it was another lucky find, an old book called Profits in Buying and Renovating Homes by Lawrence Dworin that got me into rehabbing houses for rent, and then still later in personal finance, it was very much The Millionaire Next Door by Stanley and Danko. I devoured every book Stanley wrote after that. My wife was exactly the same way. We locked on and haven't let go since. Living the way Stanley showed us has been extremely kind to our net worth, financial security, and mental health in running out little property business, and every time now I read something on the Web about how The Millionaire Next Door was a myth and a fable about a false cohort of people and no one could possibly take the ideas laid out in it seriously and they couldn't possibly work today to help make anyone financially secure, oh wow do I laugh, and it's the rich, satisfying laugh of a guy who's laughing last. Of course I don't agree with everything in the book, but what Stanley's trying to show and say is, overall, the best strategic resource on how to live in order to help yourself get from zero to a million on your personal balance sheet that's ever been written in America.
Stanley's gone, sadly, killed by a drunk driver in 2015. His daughter is finishing his last research project and she's coming out with a new book at the end of September. That may be very accessible. But his last book (2009) was called Stop Acting Rich...and Start Living Like a Real Millionaire, and it was a great read, better than the than The Millionaire Next Door, first published in 1996, and there was a lot of updated specific research in Stop Acting Rich that still applies.