@Jay Flaggs lots to unpack in your question, so I will summarize some of my key points:
- Lease should spell out responsibilities. There is usually general clauses that, although not specific, can apply to the things on your list. There are some things that need to be specifically spelled out like lawn care, because some landlords provide it and others don't. Lawn care should even be spelled out in your property listing, so people know who is responsible before viewing the property. There should be some clause about maintenance, repair, etc. in your lease, so read back through it.
- Your rent rate and local common practices may guide your tenant towards expecting certain things. If most landlord in the area charge $5000 a month for a house and include pool maintenance, then for lack of spelling it out in the lease, the tenant may expect it. That being said, the first time they ask for something is your opportunity to say YES we cover that or NO that is your responsibility. If you hesitate or seem unsure who should pay, the tenant will insist that you pay. Firmness is required in any response. This is true not only in landholding but also parenting, management and generally any time you want to be treated with respect.
- I have heard of the $100 or less is tenants responsibility and I think this is a sloppy landlord policy. It only leads to your tenant not reporting problems or coming up with their own solutions. It could even lead a tenant to make sure the repair costs more than $100! Also keep in mind some policies sound great for a landlord, but annoy tenants and will lead to them moving out. So although you can push a $100 policy, it may not be in your best interest.
- Some things are important to avoid bigger costs later. You could blow off fireplace maintenance or pool maintenance, but that could just result in a more expensive repair later. Preventative maintenance needs to be done by the landlord or have a process to ensure the tenant is doing it.
- Generally speaking, landlords do not pay for general leaning, damage or consumables. Landlords are responsible for items that are normal wear and tear or things that break due to no fault of the tenant. Landlords are also responsible for preventative maintenance, like HVAC cleaning. Of course be aware that things break, even with normal use and that is not the tenants fault. Here are some examples of cleaning items. Pool or jacuzzi cleaning would be on the tenant. Fireplace cleaning would be on the tenant, but it would be cleaned prior to move in. HVAC filters are generally on the tenant, but furnace/AC cleaning is often done by the landlord. Wood floor refinishing should not be required every few years. I had friends with big dogs that destroyed a wood floor in less than two years, but that is not normal wear and tear. Consumables should be on the tenant, which includes light bulbs, batteries and filters. Just make sure when they moved in that all the light bulbs worked, fresh batteries in smoke detectors and new filters. Same is expected on move out.