@Steve Wilson , to be specific, I had a number of mentors.
My first was the gentleman that owned the property management company I was working for. I kept asking questions and when I start buying properties I realized how great advice he gave me after looking at my goals. I also just observed how he chose tenants, how he responded to sellers and how he negotiated. So working for him was a huge learning opportunity. I always offered to do more than what my job was and kept extending myself to learn new things.
Another mentor is one of my general contractors. He also owns a lot of properties and when asking him for pricing possible flips or a newly purchased properties, he always gave me pointers on what to look for in properties, floor plans I can work with to add bedrooms and baths, what an over improving was or under improving a property, plus he taught me how to price cost of construction.
I had several mentors that are mortgage brokers as I could not have learned so much about all possible types of financing without them. I kept calling them for years almost daily with questions, and I still call now, as new mortgage programs are offered and some change. As FHA values were just increased in Cook County for 2018 by 40K for almost every type of property. These amazing people keep me informed all the time and take my calls on Sunday evening if that's when I write an offer.
One of my longest going mentors is my managing broker that has been mentoring me since I got my license in 2002. He thought me how to price properties and that the most important thing is to underprice my flips. If when you buy a property you look at an ARV that's lower than most of the active listings, it's almost impossible to lose, as you'll sell your property quick and for the money, you hoped for or more. Also, he thought me the value of not doing dual agency or buying properties from my clients. 90% of lawsuits in this county are from Real Estate. You don't want to get in the middle of that, as you can't win!
I had and have other mentors and a lot of times they become my mentors not because I asked them to mentor me, but because I notice that these people I meet are more knowledgeable than me, are kind and they are willing to share. I always offered to help them any way I can and made sure I found a way to return the favor if it's by referring them, clients, helping them with their own projects or whatever I felt was a good way to thank them.
I also have paid coaches and I have two different one at all times that help me brainstorm my Business Plans, the skills I want to continue to acquire, and discussing all the problems coming up.
Remember you have to think out of the box, find the people you want to get mentored by, find a way to help them first and they will teach you everything you want to learn.
And lastly, don't forget the Mindset mentors. :) Mine are long gone: Napoleon Hill, Earl Nightingale, and Jim Rohn. You'll find their advice on Youtube and you can continuously listen to them.
P.S. Jim Rohn said "You are the average of the 5 people you most associate with" Who are you associating yourself with? Is it time to change some of those people?
Good luck to you!