@ J Scott: My wife and I are actually in the process of determining if we want to do the pre-construction flip or the pre-construction lease-purchase (another investment model I've developed, but I'll save that for another discussion) using our own money. I'll also be leveraging money I put into a self-directed IRA come October, and my wife has a house she owns free and clear that she is not using to its full potential.
Like I mentioned, I'm getting back into the real estate game, and I'm going big this time. In 2005 I was going big when I took my eye off the ball. I had completed 3 deals, had 9 under contract with initial purchase prices of $1.8M using less than $20K to control them. In 3 months they had appreciated by over $250K. I was also in the process of buying a $1.5M penthouse at the Mirage in Las Vegas ( secured a contract to purchase in the 2nd tower of their 3-tower condo development). Unfortunately I was going through a divorce (married right of college to my college sweetheart) after being married 9 years, and I lost myself. I spent $200K cash in 9 months because I was "promised" a $1M fee for being the middle-man in trading historical currency, as well as a $15M line of credit to finance my other businesses (I also had a music development company and traded stock options online). This promise was made by a woman who helped put me through college.
Long story short, I lost everything:
- My 4,400 sf. house in one of the most prestigious gated communities in Palmdale, CA.
- My 5 series BMW
- $200K in cash (I spent money like I had the $1M fee in hand)
- Owed Las Vegas casinos $12K in borrowed money (I was a semi-professional Black Jack gambler. I would be in Las Vegas 2-3 days per week and gamble with a daily bankroll of $10K. I've been comp'ed every type of suite at the Hard Rock Casino except for the one with bowling lane).
I got down to my last $100 and was about to be homeless. Looking back, God took everything away from me to make me realize what's important: His Unconditional Love. When all was said and done, the only people around to help me were my father (I'm a preacher's kid and I lived the story of the prodigal son) and my girlfriend (now my wife). I started back on the road to financial and spiritual recovery in 2006 and God has blessed me to be in the position I am in now, both financially and spiritually. I am quitting my $100K+ cushy government job as of the end of September. I am doing real estate investing and services, government and small business consulting services, and personal finance educational services.
I was told in 1999 by Ken Hiyashi (former Japanese billionaire who went bankrupt in the late 1980's when the Japanese were buying up American commercial real estate):
"One you have made money and lost it, it's easy to make it again. The question is what are you going to do with it the next time you make it."
I wish I had listened to him, but in 1999 I wasn't in the right mindset (was just starting an Internet marketing company at the end of 1999 right before the Dotcom crash happened in 2000). So now here I am, 42 years old, and now in the right mindset to make money and to know what to do with it. Money and material things don't run my life and they don't dictate my behavior. I have a very close personal relationship with God, and my unwavering belief in God's Unconditional Love governs my thoughts, my behavior, my actions and my words. There is nothing on this earth than cause physical, emotional, financial or psychological pain and suffering to my Spirit. And the only things that can cause pain and suffering to my soul is that which I give authority to. Through my belief in God's Unconditional Love I embrace my Spiritual Authority, which I exercise through my actions and words. God gives us all Spiritual Gifts, and when you are led by the Holy Spirit to use your Spiritual Gifts to provide solutions to other people's challenges, you and the person for whom you are providing the solution are rewarded (especially spiritually).
I give this testimony hoping that I can be a positive influence in another person's life and plant a seed that will bring them closer in their personal relationship with God, because in the end, that's all that matters.
God Bless You!