Originally posted by @Nelly R.:
I've been listening to a gazillion podcasts, reading books, articles, running numbers, day in and out.....ANYTHING to educate myself on this process! Got my money/funding in place... I even worked with a realtor in my area and started looking at a few homes. Whyyyyyy is finding a buy and hold property in my area so hard?! I know my budget isn't the highest for my first place but, I feel like I'm doing all of the work (finding my own houses, crunching the numbers, asking to go out and look, following up on offers made, etc.) and by the time she gets back to me with the MLS listing, her availability, or whether or not the offer was submitted, the home could be far gone. Do realtors feel like it's a waste of time putting in the work for less expensive homes? Should I just go the "FSBO" or auction route, get an attorney/title company and eliminate the realtor process all together? Is this one of the reasons RE investors get their real estate license....to eliminate the need to wait for other realtors? Sorry for the rant and I know patience is key.....but I'm just getting frustrated with this process thus far!
I hear you Nelly - as a former boss told me many years ago "beginnings suck." The first two offers I ever placed were both accepted & then, each deal later fell through. This was in a few months time span. Was very frustrating BUT a good learning experience. Funny enough, this wasn't too far from you, in Queens, NYC. The tri-state area can be a tricky place to conquer but it is possible.
It sounds like you are having doubts about your realtor, and while I generally believe in giving people a chance, I think you may want to find another to work with. Feeling like you are being taken care of and are comfortable is absolutely crucial. If you go to a local REI, your fellow investors will definitely know some other folks who can help. After doing a deal or two, getting your own license isn't a bad idea - if you know your criteria, with MLS access, you can probably handle the process yourself.
Where in NJ are you looking? I used to live in NYC for many years, and one of my friends there invests in B- to C+ areas in Newark, and has had a good experience. Closer to you, I am aware of folks who've done well in some areas of Trenton, although this was a while ago. With prices having gone up so much in most markets, you might be looking at C- or D neighborhoods, which I would avoid, at least as a beginner.
Could make sense to look out of state, given how expensive NJ is. I invest in CA but recently visited Cleveland and found some great opportunities, there are many other markets that are also affordable and can make sense. With that said, first deal I did was local, and there is a nice comfort factor in being able to drive to the property and keep an eye on it.
Keep going! You'll get there - and someday look back and laugh at all of this.