All Forum Posts by: Sylvester Hardison
Sylvester Hardison has started 7 posts and replied 23 times.
Post: Looking for Recommendations on Hard Money Lenders in Ohio

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I am looking for hard money lenders in the Ohio area to finance a BRRRR project in the future. If you know of any reliable lenders please let me know. Your suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance!!
Post: Looking for Recommendations on Hard Money Lenders in Memphis, TN

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Thank you!
Post: Looking for Recommendations on Hard Money Lenders in Memphis, TN

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- California
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I am looking for hard money lenders in Memphis to finance a real estate investment project. If you know of any reliable lenders or have recommendations, please let me know. Your suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance!!
Post: Looking for Recommendations: Home Insurance in Memphis, TN

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- California
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Hello,
I am in the market for a good home insurance company for investment properties in Memphis, Tennessee. I am looking for a provider that offers reliable coverage but is also reasonably priced. If you have any recommendations for companies with which you've had positive experiences, please let me know.
Thanks in advance for your help!!
Post: Question regarding Paid Mentorships

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Thank you very much!! Great insight.
Post: Question regarding Paid Mentorships

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Thank you!!
Post: Question regarding Paid Mentorships

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Quote from @Account Closed:
Quote from @Sylvester Hardison:
I debated making this post. However, I am curious to get input from those who have experience in investing. I started researching and investing in January 2024 and purchased my first investment property in March 2024. While continuing to do research, I have been sent emails and attended webinars where they offer paid mentorships. The question for seasoned investors is, are mentorships worth their cost, or is doing your own research just as good? If you support mentorships and would like to suggest one, please do and I will look into it. Thank you
I put mentorships into 3 catagories
1. Multifamily - yes because 100 units and more usually require syndication, there is a lot to learn and joining a group gives you access to people with money who have that mindset. You need to be an accredited investor interested in multifamily.
2. "Group think" mentorship where you join a group and are on large group "meetings" where the basics are taught, it's mostly motivational and the standard push is to bring leads to the "mentor" who uses people as a "bird dog". You have to be self starting, aggressive to get you questions answered and really take personal action.
3. One on one training, which I decided on, where you are brought from brand new to an investor buying and holding properties. You are challenged to better yourself, it is geared toward the individual and you actually buy properties. This is the best for people that are starting out that want to become proficient investors covering CA TX and AZ. I can recommend who I used and according to Bigger Pocket's rules the request has to be initiated by the person seeking the information and sent through DM.
Thank you!!
Post: Question regarding Paid Mentorships

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Quote from @Evan Polaski:
@Sylvester Hardison, I am going to echo other's thoughts, but it also depends on what your current education level is and where you feel your weaknesses are.
Within the multifamily space, for instance, there are a lot of groups out there. Some are more marketing focused, some are more analytical, a lot seem to be "it is all mindset". If you are looking for someone to teach you syndication, a common thread is to start a thought leadership platform: podcast, post on LinkedIn, post on BP, create YouTube content.
I would say, if you have almost no understanding of what Cap rates are, the basics of underwriting and excel modeling, how to find brokers, etc a mentor can help accelerate your learning.
But, like many, I am always a bit skeptical of gurus/mentors. Why? Well, I would want to learn from people that are doing what I want to do. But, if they are THAT successful in the field they know the most about, how do they have time to teach it and why would they waste their valuable time building an army of competition? Generally speaking, most gurus/mentors fall into two categories:
First, people that are legitimately trying to make it in the industry. Maybe they have done a deal or two or four, but are not making enough from the deals to support themselves, so need to sell their knowledge.
Second, people who really are no longer active in real estate. If they are hosting quarterly conferences to bring in new clients and running ads constantly for their educational course, they have likely learned that the education world is far more lucrative then they were able to be in real estate. And these people, I don't want to learn from.
Bonus third: you have people that are truly active in the business who are using mentorships to "teach people" how to raise money, and magically, those people are provided the opportunity to raise money for that gurus deal. So, effectively, you pay money to learn how to make the guru more money (also known as the multi-level marketing of the real estate world).
I appreciate the response. Truly gives insight. Thank you!!
Post: Question regarding Paid Mentorships

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Quote from @Guy Gimenez:
The biggest issues with paid mentoring and coaching are:
1. Often the "student" doesn't do his/her due diligence PRIOR to choosing a mentor / coach, resulting in a loss of money and little to show for it. The student requests no proof of the mentor's success in the industry but instead gets easily sold on the rainbows and pixie dust. And they almost never ask for a copy of the contract in advance, and when the student receives it, they don't understand what they're signing.
2. The mentor is all hat and no cattle, meaning they're experts at marketing themselves but don't really have the requisite knowledge and experience to guide someone.
3. The mentor farms out training to low paid wannabe investors who have even less experience, but again, they're great marketers.
4. The student expects results but does little to no marketing, does little to no online research to fully understand strategies, potential pitfalls, contract and contract law, title, etc...they just wait to get rich.
Thank you very much!
Post: Question regarding Paid Mentorships

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Quote from @Nathan Gesner:
Quote from @Sylvester Hardison:
David Greene has talked about this quite often. Too many people sign up for a coach thinking it will make their growth easy. The opposite is true.
Is it a good idea to hire a basketball coach so you can be a better player? Absolutely! Is it easy? Absolutely not! If they are a good coach, they will have you drilling fundamentals every day, watching everything you eat, studying the rules and strategies, lifting weights, and more. You will get better, but it will involve a lot of time and energy to get there.
Investing is the same. There are great coaches, and there are really bad ones. If you find a good one, you'll pay with your time, energy, and money. 99% of all investors would be better off reading some books, networking, and growing at their own pace. Coaches are for people like Brandon Turner that want to put all their resources into rapid growth to build an empire.
Thank you very much!