Adam, I'm in RI as well and feel the same. I pass on marginal deals and sometimes find out later they ended up working out OK for the person who took the risk, often because of a rising market. I refuse to assume a rising market in my analyses, it just seems irresponsible/risky to me, but others are at a different point on the risk/reward spectrum and that's fine too - everyone has to find their own comfort spot.
Angel, there are a lot of good ideas in this thread including private lending and getting some rental properties, or (maybe the best one yet) just waiting until you find something that does meet your criteria.
Another idea could include spending a little bit on educating yourself in any areas of real estate that interest you. An investment in education can pay off many times over BUT I'd urge you to be cautious and not spend a ton of money on "real estate gurus". There's a whole industry oriented around sales techniques and getting new investors to part with their hard earned money, for varying levels of actual education. (Bigger Pockets was, I think, created partly as a reaction to that industry.)
But if you do your research there might be some good educational opportunities which can expand your mental horizons to other ways of making money in real estate. I've been to Dyches Boddiford seminars and found that their informational content was higher than many other gurus/educators I've attended over the years, so I can recommend him, but certainly do your due diligence and find what you're comfortable with, and if you end up stuck in a sales presentation follow the rule "NEVER buy something the same day as the sales presentation, no matter what 'special deal' or 'limited time offer' they present - always wait AT LEAST a day and think on it, research it, etc."
(If you're thinking of doing private lending there is class coming up, which may be too short notice for you, but I think it occurs once or twice a year. On the other hand, one could argue that if you choose a good real estate attorney to draft your loan docs and guide you through the process, the money is just as well spent there.)
Another thing is that, as a guru Robert Kiyosaki (Rich Dad) is "information light" (on specifics), but I do feel his books have a number of "philosophical gems" (ways of looking at things) which are extremely valuable. In your case, a repeated theme Kiyosaki mentions is that "business is a team sport" (and if you're the smartest guy on your team, your team is in trouble).
If you haven't read it, I'd recommend Kiyosaki's book Cashflow Quadrant as it explains his idea of E-S-B-I (employee/self-employed/business owner/investor). The important point being that "S" people are smart and self-reliant but have a very hard time delegating - they're using to being the "star" - and it ends up hurting them because you just can't do everything and you do actually need a team to have anything other than meager success (in my experience).
I only mention it because 1) several of your comments (Angel) sound like they relate to those themes, and 2) I suffer from the same problem and constantly fight against it in my own head.
Finally, unless you have gotten a lot of experience with real estate in your own area / back yard first, I would be cautious about spending a lot of money in an out of state investment. In fact, for new investors I usually recommend the exact opposite, that they try to buy a small rental property within a half hour of their home and get their feet wet with a little small property management, and then expand out from there as their comfort level allows.
I'm not saying out of state investments can't work out, but it's a lot harder to do your due diligence on both the property and the company presenting it to you and/or managing it for you. Your mileage may vary, but for me when I hear "make great returns without any work, 'turn key', etc." it makes me want to be very cautious.