Also, from what I keep hearing from agents, communication can make or break a deal… especially after hours, since real estate doesn’t really run 9–5.Curious, how do you find lenders who operate the way you described? 

So we're not rich but with our incomes combined and almost no debt we make a decent living (for the area we live at least).

Just pay attention to how people communicate early, pick those who actually get investor math, and keep building relationships instead of just collecting contacts.

Frustrating part would be communication gaps on your core team can slow things down.

A co-worker (at the time) and a close friend EACH recommended Rich Dad Poor Dad.

.* Communicate like a pro.

Quote from @Melissa Wilson: Both buying and selling, I am baffled by the lack of basic communication skills and relationship management ability.

Multiple capital calls, poor communication and recently notified that 2 of the 3 deals are being foreclosed on.

Clear communication about expectations and deadlines can foster a more efficient process.

Pick a lender who can actually close on time, communicate well, and help you structure deals, not just quote you the cheapest number.