What is your relation to Donna, her course, or her company?

Just remember this keep a smile on your face and treat them like they were your relative or someone you knew for a long time and that will make them open up to you and discuss there problems if they see you generally care.

Sarah, do your relatives have any other debts or savings?

Let's assume that your relative is going to put up the money for you to buy a property that has a great potential profit.I would suggest that he is co-purchaser with you - with a simple agreement that he gets 30% of the NET PROFITS - make sure it is NET!

There is NO 5% money unless its your relatives lending it to you.. that on its face is showing you they are frauds and fake lenders full stop. 

Probably easier to just avoid discussing your real estate business with them; it would be so much nicer for you if they would support you, but as they say, you don't get to choose your relatives...

Has your relative been the only tenant?

But that probably should be someone you can hire who will have a fiduciary responsibility for you, which is beyond the public forum such as BP.Is the deceased your relative? 

If your relative sells this on the mls for $220k, they will pay 6% for commissions, 2% for closing costs, and 3% for seller concessions.

Did your relator turn them down or is it up to you, that is two different messages.