'If Momma ain't happy....there's no-one happy" :)We just had a Bio PhD & Elect Engineer move after 2 yrs in our > $1500/mo rental as the PhD's full-time position didn't pan out.

Hey momma, let's hook up and we can dump this crib together....?

Yes, I have written my own contracts, like momma said, do as I say, not as I do.

You can use a negotiating tactic from "How to win friends and influence people" to get some help at the surrogates office.  

I really enjoy the ones that go into the more unconventional ways of getting started and finding the funds to do so....cause this single momma is doing it on one income!

We have had just about everything the past eight months has been critter wars, raccoon in the basement, chipmunks running through one apartment and squirrels eating the windows in another (eight new windows -oh well I was deciding if I should replace or restore the old wood windows and momma squirrel decided for us).

Sam, in NJ, I can't access the PR online...I need to go to the County Surrogate's Office and look them up manually.I expected to have angry calls, it's just difficult when they are the only calls I'm getting.

Surrogate court...nope.

Momma wants to wait and save about 50k to get another rental to move into for 2 months while we fix interior of primary and move back in then rent out the new rental.....I say we heloc or cash out refi the primary and get moving on it sooner than later at the lower rates etc.....I don't know....she has the emergency brake on as well as mashing down on the brake pedal and one foot out the door on the pavement as well....my gotta get out and go clock is about to explode knowing we have leverage and me wanting to make a move, or at least be able to make a move if something too good to pass up comes along......Guess I really need to ask a marriage counselor more than the experts here.

I speak truth, facts and accuracy, and I don't give a flip how that "feels", I ain't yo momma and I ain't here to tip toe the PC Police.