@Jim K.
I’ve read a ton of these responses but there’s just to many dor me to keep going. From someone who grew up dirt poor being made fun of for not having cable as a kid and going to a high school rated a 1 with a disclaimer, if 0 was an option this school would be that, to hanging on the streets and ending up in prison for 5 years, no I disagree that you have to do bad things in real estate. It’s the exact opposite. steaming from your mother to chase a high is a bad thing, robbing someone for the thrill
Is a bad thing. Offering someone housing for a return of money is not bad at all in my eyes. I’m
Not going to speak about the poster and I’m going to focus on the question and responses the best I can.
Some people are perfectly satisfied with there lives in a class D neighborhood, I know I was when I was there. I was even okay with being in prison and at one point accepted that this was my life. But I changed and wanted more for myself. So I worked to get more. With all the cards stacked against me I climbed out with very few in my corner. Life isn’t easy, your suppose to have problems everyone does. But dwelling on the negative is no good.
I just relocated from New Jersey to Arizona for many reasons. Politics and real estate we’re two of them. I didn’t like the way my state was so I decided to go somewhere else. If someone doesn’t like the investments in there area invest out of state or just move! But action is the key here. Nothing will change inside or around anyone until the few take action. New York is a prime example. Run down in the 80’s then trump snd Hemsley stArt building up. Then a few others start developing. Then they run out of space so they move into Harlem and Chelsea. Now they’ve moved into Brooklyn. But this all
Happened because a few people took the first action.
Don’t blame the black kids or people who don’t want to work or the government or slum lords or bad tenants or shorty contractors and anyone else but yourself for you problems. You can over improve s property. That’s why some markets call for imported finished from Italy snd Europe while others csll for stock cabinets snd a $10 faucet. I bought a property with a $30k rehab. Now around $60k in with another $20 left snd I’m completely happy. I decided to redo everything now so I don’t have to touch it again. And this property is in a class D neighborhood with new everything. We all need to be comfortable with what we do period. Everyone has difference tolerance levels. A rich preppy kid from bel air would never invest in an inner city. But someone who grew up snd knows about it will. There is someone for each thing in this world and we all just gotta get in where we fit in. Snd if you don’t like where you are, then change how you act snd move up
To the next level.
I make good money and between my wife and I we don’t struggle and we’re pretty good. But I just offered 8 hours of work of free Internship to a developer in my area. I want to get to the next level so in order to get there I have to take myself from the “king of the loser” and go back to being a toilet scrubber.
Make a plan know where you want to be in 3,5,10,50 years and just act on it. Once you get where you want your done and you can keep going or stop. But if you don’t know where your going you’re always going to be lost looking around the corner for answers!!