Thank you for sharing these tips with everyone. Like it or not, first impressions are everything. I am amazed at how many people either don't know this, know it and don't care, or know it and are unable to apply it to themselves.
Time and time again, I am approached by newcomers asking if I'll fund a deal for them. In most instances, that's all they ask - they don't have the common sense to include at least some preliminary information about the deal; no address, no purchase amount, not even what city and state it's in! I'm pretty much tired of hearing, "are you still funding?" or "will you fund a [unknown and undefined] deal for me?"
Despite being involved in several businesses, I consider myself a pretty easy-going person. My existing partners can attest to that - much of the business that transacts between us is done via phone and email, and funded the very next day. But those are relationships that have earned my trust, by adhering to my parameters and not trying to slip "bad" deals into the mix. We are respectful of each others' limits and expectations.
If you're a newcomer looking for funding, you should realize there is no pre-existing business relationship between you and your potential financing partner. Potential funding partners whom you approach have no reason to trust you, and without a track record, your word is a poor gauge of your abilities. As I explained to a very indignant wanna-be flipper who was telling me that his word was "gold" and was all that mattered; when a problem that is out of your control arises (divorce, injury, hospitalization, serious traffic accident) and you are unable to fulfill your obligation - of what value are your good intentions? In that scenario, which is better in securing my interests - your word or your collateral?
Another major pet peeve is newcomers who refuse to do their homework. Just this month, I had one complete stranger (from BP) ask if I'd fund a $1.6M home in FL. His so-called analysis assumed ZERO carrying cost for my funds (no interest), did not take into account comps or marketability (homes of that class, in that neighborhood, took an average of 12 months to move), and his claim of profitability had no factual basis. He assumed that just by changing the carpeting and redoing the landscape, the property could be sold for $3.1M... despite comps in the area selling for $1.6M to $1.9M. The carrying cost for my funds alone would have netted this deal a loss of between $110K and $440K.
One more hint... if you've never flipped a property before, or if you don't own rentals, you are not a "real estate investor" - you are a "real estate investor wanna-be." Do not introduce yourself to me as a "real estate investor" - just because you read some forum posts and purchased a book or course does not qualify you as an investor. Experience and the ability to handle real-world investment scenarios is what makes you an investor. Once you tell me you're a real estate investor, and I find out differently (I always perform due-diligence), you no longer have credibility... and I will scrutinize everything you present me, as well as think of you as a potential risk and liability rather than a business partner.
Instead, tell me what you can bring to the table in these deals, and what prior experience you have that directly impacts your ability to be my ideal partner. A man who does not understand his limitations is a dangerous business partner. A man who misrepresents his experience is a disaster waiting to happen.