Hello Aaron! I would suggest that you sell your liability as soon as you can, yes I said liability, It is called an asset to brainwash you to think it is but when you add the property tax and maintenance, you'll see what I mean. House values have even only kept up with yearly inflation over the last 100 years. I live just outside of Dallas, Texas, and after I thought about it it is true that you're lucky if you break even. When you realize you have spent what it's is worth today, you will realize when you add in property tax and maintenance you break even if you are lucky.
I paid just over $100,000 on it originally and it's worth about $250,000 now but when you add in what I've spent on property tax and maintenance I just break even after about 34 years. Owning a home is usually a bad investment plain and simple. You might be saving the money between a rental unit and a home purchase debt service. I joined biggerpockets about 5 years and since then I have learned many things. Being bedridden has given me much of that time educating myself, 7 days per week.
The things you have been taught in grade school and told by your family is not true anymore. You should be learning the legal way to raise money and forming Partnerships and buying apartment complexes under your control. The more units you own, the better you'll be. You might have noticed that people that have been successful with rental units in houses have to own about 20 or 30 of them just to cover their monthly bills, then they might get some of the profit when they own 30 or 40 all at different addresses.
With apartment complexes you might just have one address where you have many units. Owning a single digit of house units are not worth the time you have to spend on them or turn them them over and they usually cost you twice as much as you have thought or saved for. In today's economy it's better to either own apartment complexes (which don't require any experience) , Fix and Flips, or Quick Flips.
I do believe that real estate property ownership is a game of quantities and how many offers you make will effect your success. I usually know what I'm talking about because I have been in construction management for about 30 years as well as having a real estate broker license for about 30 years and having a business college degree with honors that emphasized real estate. So I've been around a block or two.
I say what I say as an attempt to let you know more about this world and I have not meant for you to take this advice personally. Not mentioning your age can effect your answers. I had to pay PMI until my property got down to 80% of my value or the loan balance. One other way to make money is to offer your home as a Lease Option to somebody that has been turned down by a Bank and not knowing their are alternatives and act like they can pay their bills.
A HOA can be very risky so ask about them before you buy (from future neighbors) another one of thattype of unit and know their requirements or possible special assessments for capital expenditures and know if that property is close to making one. Renting will usually allow you to save more money than buying.
Do not believe all that you are told, especially from those that have not done what they are talking about. Your parents may love you but they did grow up at a different time and are just telling you what they learned when growing up and most people do not know what they are talking about and that today things are alot different than they use to be and that the times has changed.
Good luck to you!